@thepottymouthguru: Some children don’t become difficult. They disappear. Not physically. Emotionally. They learn: 👉 Don’t ask for much. 👉 Don’t create problems. 👉 Don’t take up space. 👉 Don’t make things harder for anyone else. They’re often described as: • easygoing • independent • mature • quiet • low maintenance Adults look at them and think: 👉 What a great kid. Meanwhile the child is learning: 👉 Nobody notices my needs anyway. Then adulthood can look like: • struggling to identify needs • staying quiet when hurt • difficulty asking for help • accepting emotional neglect • feeling unseen in relationships • minimizing pain • chronic loneliness The heartbreaking part? Many invisible children grow into adults who desperately want to be seen while continuing to hide. And often nobody notices. Because they got so good at disappearing. ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #unfuckyourself #thepottymouthguru #attachmentstyles #childhoodtrauma #relationaltrauma ❤️🤟🏻🌿

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Erochan :
I was a very obvious invisible child, I spent 90% of my time at home in my room with the door shut 😅
2026-07-17 13:24:47
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thepottymouthguru
The Pottymouth Guru :
The invisible child often grows into the adult who feels unseen everywhere they go while never fully learning how to let themselves be seen. ❤️🤟🏻🌿
2026-06-08 16:39:20
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ona38414
Ona :
Yup. I’m officially all 3 types.
2026-06-08 21:00:03
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bubbaleroi
Chad King :
Listen ladyI have spent over 40 years hidden. I don't need you drawing attention to me now.
2026-07-02 00:25:09
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thelongbox
Mike H :
I WISH I was invisible, just my existence got me yelled at sometimes.
2026-06-08 18:32:49
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.voidfox
Gabrielle :
I never thought it would relish with one of these but well I stand corrected. never said I'd relish with one of these because I have a good family dynamic I don't have a toxic family dynamic I relish with this because of a friendship dynamic that I'm still dealing with so this is an interesting tone of events
2026-06-21 02:25:51
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onka3895
Onka_ARMY💜 :
alright... I'm gonna go cry now
2026-06-30 21:28:29
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kc_hummfree
K.C.Hummfree :
This is my step daughter. Makes me so sad.
2026-06-08 22:46:48
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nyx33156
Birdie :
This describes me exactly. Do you have more videos or resources about this one?
2026-06-15 18:13:39
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k.warner1
kinz :
I think the invisible child and useful child go very much hand in hand together in my experience 😅
2026-06-08 17:27:53
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justbuiltdifferent_
justbuiltdifferent_ :
You need a series on television
2026-06-29 22:40:46
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intuitive.amethyst
Angelique Howell :
Always shrinking. People don't notice when I'm not around until I'm doing something that is for me and NOT for them. When I actually want to be alone and don't want to be bothered, that's when they notice me and start trying to come around.
2026-06-10 23:21:52
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blue_momma2
Blue_momma2🇨🇦 :
I was waiting for this one (to hit my fyp lol) I knew i was the invisible one, i perfected it, to the point I thought i truly was invisible. 🫥😶‍🌫️
2026-06-09 20:55:59
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springskintone
SpringGirl :
Once my bf called out a rude behaviour I had in front of his friends and said “you are not invisible” and I was honestly so surprised, I never thought I was not invisible…
2026-06-08 20:02:18
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aldev2112
ald🇨🇦🇨🇦 :
I would " blend into the background ". I wanted to be invisible and it took many years to stop this feeling
2026-06-08 18:14:37
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melimaceda
Meli Maceda :
I think I'm an easy child who became invisible for being so easy, and I made myself useful just to be seen. I feel that when I'm in a room full of people (friends, family, anyone) if I weren't there, nothing would be different. I get mad at people because they only see the version of me that I created to be useful, and no one actually SEES me or knows me, But I don't really know who I am either. I don't know who the real me is anymore. I just know that I'm lonely, and most of the time I feel like I'm drowning.
2026-06-09 03:40:50
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blink_lover83
💋Stephanie 🏴‍☠️ :
yeah im definitely the invisible child as the 3rd one....my sister, 1st born, was always the center of everything, my older brother was the first boy and then I had my baby brother who stole the spotlight when I was 2 lol
2026-06-19 12:10:05
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mountainviewfarmmc
Crystal 🍉🇨🇦🏳️‍🌈 :
Ouch.
2026-06-22 18:52:00
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jlialine
JliaLine :
The videos need to stop being relatable at this point 😭
2026-06-23 01:58:28
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mogaliie
mogaliie :
So how do we fix this?…… asking for a friend
2026-06-12 18:00:54
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taramoore6788
taramoore6788 :
My career choice 100% based on being the invisible/useful child. It’s kind of sad when I think about it now. Thankfully I like math and working with numbers so I enjoy my job.
2026-06-12 03:44:51
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cedarandsnouts
Ashe + Banshee & Ryu :
This is me. Always told that I "don't need much compared to the other siblings" (im 1 of 8) as if it's a positive thing. No, I still needed it. I just had to learn to live without those things, otherwise I wouldn't have survived growing up. It's too painful seeing everyone else get shown up for in ways I can't even imagine for myself.
2026-06-16 06:12:53
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winderellaaa_
Winderellaaa :
Invisible child & also the only child
2026-06-09 22:16:44
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ali.rowen
Ali Rowen 🇦🇺 :
This hits so fucking hard!
2026-06-09 20:57:17
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jessicaoxner
Jess :
I am a combination of the Hero and Invisible child. Finally learning to be my own best friend AND that others care about me too.
2026-06-22 18:20:32
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