@subliminalsamira: 5 Things That Make An Avoidant Chase You Relentlessly If you’ve got an avoidant acting distant, hot and cold, or completely confusing, here’s what actually gets them thinking about you nonstop: 🌸 Become The Prize The second you stop acting like they’re the prize and start acting like you are, the dynamic changes. Avoidants are used to people chasing them. They don’t know what to do when the attention shifts away from them. 🌸 Stop Rewarding Breadcrumbs A random text every two weeks isn’t effort. A like on your story isn’t effort. If they’re giving you the bare minimum, stop treating it like they’re planning a wedding. The less access they have to you, the more noticeable your absence becomes. 🌸 Stay A Little Unpredictable You don’t need to announce every move you’re making. Let them wonder what you’re doing. Curiosity is powerful, and avoidants tend to think about what they can’t fully figure out. 🌸 Use Law Of Attraction + Visualization Spend a few minutes before bed visualizing them reaching out, missing you, thinking about you, and wanting to be closer to you. Why does this work? Because your subconscious mind has no choice but to mirror the reality you consistently focus on. The more you focus on the outcome you want instead of your current circumstances, the faster things can begin to shift. 🌸 Use The BowCat Method This is one of the best techniques if you’re dealing with an avoidant, especially if they’re being hot and cold or if you’re currently in no contact. It’s extremely important to do it before bed. That’s when your subconscious mind is most receptive. A lot of you have been shocked at how quickly things can happen. Some of you have had your person reach out right after doing it, especially if you’re dealing with an avoidant or someone who’s been hot and cold. If you don’t know how to do it yet, the instructions are at the top of my profile. ✨ Save this so you can come back to it whenever you need it. Which one of these do you think an avoidant struggles with the most? 👀 #avoidant #avoidantattachment #manifestation

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