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𝐋𝐚𝐧𝐢 ★ :
true love is loving someone despite their flaws
2026-06-09 20:18:53
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Here’s my opinion about this video. I think he’s partly right, but he’s also generalizing love too much. There isn’t just one type of love. There’s infatuation, obsession, attachment, admiration, companionship, romantic love, and many other forms. No one has the definitive definition of what love is. That said, I do think the most common form of what people call “falling in love” is often infatuation. Infatuation usually comes from not fully understanding the other person. People are often attracted to mystery, possibility, and the image they create of someone in their mind. In many cases, they fall in love with an idealized version of a person rather than who that person actually is. As time passes and they get to know each other more deeply, that image begins to fade. This is often associated with the end of the honeymoon phase, or more scientifically, the decline of limerence: the intense state of romantic infatuation characterized by idealization and emotional obsession. That’s why people sometimes say, “You’ve changed,” when in reality the other person may not have changed much at all. They simply weren’t fully understood in the beginning. People also love differently. Even the most intense form of love, obsession, often ends in hatred, disappointment, or boredom. Human beings have a tendency to idealize their partners and place unrealistic expectations on them. When reality inevitably fails to match the fantasy, the feelings that once seemed absolute can begin to fade or even transform into their opposite.
2026-06-09 11:50:33
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PantherGuy 7\ :
literally the opposite of what he’s saying
2026-06-12 14:07:38
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noah :
Though I adore his work, I do think he’s wrong here. Projecting a persona onto someone is only false love — if it’s love at all. Still loving the other after being confronted with reality is where real love begins
2026-06-08 20:59:56
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To fully understand someone is to love them unconditionally
2026-06-10 17:00:03
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mgobejaa :
That’s not love.
2026-06-09 19:13:22
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phi 🫧 :
it’s interesting everyone is arguing in the comments. we will all view love in different ways. there’s no point in trying to persuade one another into believing otherwise. none of these opinions are invalid because each one of us has experienced exactly what we describe and perceived that as love. and all of these opinions are fact-based according to each individual. i like this video though i do not agree with him completely.
2026-06-10 01:21:43
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hank :
i dont even agree i just think this thought process is beautiful in many ways
2026-06-10 00:25:18
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jade :
I think what he is describing is limerence. I know limerence like the back of my hand. Love is something completely different. You may not be able to distinguish love from limerence at first, but here’s the thing. Limerence is the infatuation stage before love. You either move forward or you don’t. If you don’t, you won’t feel a thing for the person eventually. love is the end result of admiring someone. Unfortunately once you experience love it is hard to fully move on from this person.
2026-06-10 00:53:58
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nick :
love is not real
2026-06-10 00:04:59
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@ : :
This is wrong. He is just describing what idealism is, you can love someone without idealizing them
2026-06-09 20:17:30
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رُ :
This is indeed what happened to me
2026-06-09 03:39:08
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🦌 :
Hes wrong
2026-06-09 15:01:57
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ٍ :
please which language is this, im so confused its sound like arabic farsi et russian
2026-06-09 10:39:00
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blueballs738 :
We expect ourselves from people and get disappointed when they don’t live up to it lol
2026-06-09 18:02:13
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annabell 🫀 :
no that’s called infatuation
2026-06-11 05:13:39
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ℳ𝒾𝒶༉‧₊˚. ഒ :
True love comes from understanding
2026-06-10 18:01:00
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_.beelzebubz._ :
True love is unconditional love and unconditional love is (if obtained) the rawest form of truth any other love is a lie in my eyes
2026-06-10 13:53:55
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lyla🐅 :
I think the complexity we find in someone makes us interested. But we only truly love them when we understand them and are able to embrace it. What he may be talking about is someone he initially thought as good, but with further understanding to become negative
2026-06-10 02:44:35
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i🪽 :
this is so wrong😭
2026-06-10 08:02:46
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privatestore05 :
I believe everyone lacks something we often focus on other people flaws while ignoring our own sometimes we expect others to give us what we wish we had ourselves hoping to heal our inner child love isn’t about finding a perfect person it’s about accepting each other’s flaws and imperfections love is beautiful when we accept that we are all imperfect human beings actually it depends on perception how we see it
2026-06-09 14:16:19
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unnamed middle-aged man :
One is only ever the lover of their own selves; though in love with another, still one only truly loves the experience of themselves
2026-06-09 15:11:53
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anna :
which language is this
2026-06-10 05:46:16
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annarebellion :
wrong and right
2026-06-09 20:10:55
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lily :
kiarostami ?
2026-06-10 07:05:19
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