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lexapro lover :
Thank u sm
2026-06-08 21:04:30
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someone else :
I feel like people are throwing around the words ableism and eugenics without knowing the actual definitions. Deciding not to continue a pregnancy because of a severe diagnosis with a poor prognosis isn’t the same thing as hating disabled people or trying to engineer the population. Like are we being serious right now?
2026-06-09 17:44:41
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🐡 :
what I don't get are the people who are okay with people getting an abortion for any other reason such as financial, age, or they simply just don't want a child. but all of a sudden when it's about aborting a child because of a disability, you're a horrible monster and supporting eugenics for doing it. y'all do not understand down syndrome is a SERIOUS GENETIC CONDITION. not wanting your child to be born with this condition is perfectly okay and fine. in no way shape or form is this ableism.
2026-06-11 21:15:48
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Jewel :
This is ableist
2026-06-08 19:35:25
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punkandcircumstance :
people completely missing your point in the comments. everyone deserves a GOOD quality of life. If you can’t provide that to a child especially with special needs… while govt programs are being cut it’s not fair to penalize a mother for making the decision for herself before the child is here. That’s a lifelong commitment not an 18 years like most people incorrectly think about child rearing.
2026-06-08 21:01:54
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pecanbutterscotx :
People who don’t understand this have never seen it from a caregivers point of view. I deal with a lot of caregivers and most of the time they’re exhausted, and they themselves also need support because their needs are secondary to the person they’re caring for. Things aren’t black and white.
2026-06-08 21:09:15
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lıa :
thank you for this bc this has been my mindset FOREVER
2026-06-08 21:18:55
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dessywessyfr :
I just want someone to go through the experience of taking care of a disabled person. My sister is disabled (she has a combination of rumination syndrome and autism which doesn’t have much research on nor have commonly knowledge) and from the start it’s been stressful. Financially my mother has paid out of pocket for my sister, buying helmets, arm splints (to prevent her from harming) leg splints and etc to help her walk because her balance isn’t that coordinated. My mom still to this day has to be up all night with my sister to stop her from banging her head. No one wants to go through that and no mother should. I love my sister dearly and my mom loves her dearly because she’s went through so much with her especially as a child basically living in the emergency room. I completely understand why mothers would want to not let their children be special needs because its financially challenging and mentally challenging…. My sister can’t even go out in the real world because of how easily stressed she gets and humans don’t understand how to look at a special needs person as also a human being.
2026-06-09 03:34:20
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Debo :
W take
2026-06-08 19:32:57
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djfish04 :
Watched a documentary about an elderly mother having to put her disabled adult daughter into a home and how heart wrenchingly difficult that was. She knows her daughter will now spend the remainder of her life in that home and it’s just hard. Not everyone has a support system to care for that child the way they deserve throughout their life. My gf is also a teacher with special needs students and more often than not, they’re neglected at home in some way.
2026-06-09 20:40:31
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jor | CET🫀🩺 :
i feel like it’s the most selfless thing you could actually do, you’re so right about thinking about what happens to you who’s gonna take care of them? i wouldn’t even trust anyone else besides my fiance
2026-06-08 21:31:10
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breuhdotcom :
No literally
2026-06-08 21:08:16
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L :
i struggle with major depression and anxiety. i would be so fearful of having a child just out of the fear of them having the same mental health struggles that i do, let alone anything that would be more severe. people treat the world like it's sunshine and rainbows. if you cannot almost guarentee that child will be safe and happy, you shouldn't feel guilty for making the choice to not go through with a pregnancy... i would feel it's cruel to bring someone into this world with any of my own traits, let alone if i had a risk for something even more debilitating
2026-06-12 22:51:17
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someone else :
As someone who is disabled due to lupus, narcolepsy type one, and several other lifelong health conditions, I am suffering a great deal and most days have a pretty low quality of life. If my parents had the option to know that this is what my life would look like, I would want them to abort me. I wouldn’t know the difference anyways because I would’ve never existed. My situation doesn’t even come close to the severity of others and my life is miserable. I will never be able to live on my own and probably won’t be able to work ever again. I have little to no friends and am a burden to those around me.
2026-06-09 17:36:32
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nev 💗 :
Yes omg you worded this perfectly
2026-06-09 17:25:27
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kai_th3_cat :
Pro-choice for any type of choice. You don’t just go into a clinic and ask for an abortion, there are legal steps, and it’s stressful as hell — ask me how I know. She made her rightful choice like she deserves to be able to make, no matter what
2026-06-09 17:08:47
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💖 :
The take we needed to hear
2026-06-08 22:48:26
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Mia :
and i’ve beeeeeen saying this
2026-06-08 21:15:56
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debbieghost :
I agree with you.
2026-06-08 21:25:58
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kimberlyclark0278 :
wtf
2026-06-08 20:06:38
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butts :
i worked in grouphomes and it was heartbreaking hearing the older residents talk about their parents who had passed on the truth is the parents wont be around forever and after that they will most likely be cared for by strangers and its hard on them
2026-06-09 08:48:45
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A N A H 🦄 :
I said this and i literally got called ableist
2026-06-09 10:32:55
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eva 🫶🏻 :
Being a parent is one thing, it is tough raising them, but there is a general expectation in human development that as your child ages they become independent and they develop into their own people with their own lives. Your relationship with them as their parent becomes much less intensely high demand. But being a parent and a full time caregiver is different, there isn’t exactly an end goal in the same way. You don’t get a break, your own needs become second to another person not just as you raise them but for life. It is high demand all the time. And that is a role a lot of people cannot handle and don’t want to become if they can prevent it. It’s not selfish or bad to spare your child a life of that, and I say all this as a disabled person myself.
2026-06-10 05:25:57
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Purgatory Island :
i hate the idea of having a regular kids itself but the idea of having a child who needs even more of my constant support,comfort and reassurance would be the death of me as someone who already feels exhausted when babysitting just a regular kid
2026-06-10 08:03:54
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Trinity Adriana :
I know it’s not something I want to put up with to be honest
2026-06-09 22:52:20
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