@a_a_ron.disordered.mind: Some CPTSD symptoms don’t always look like “symptoms” from the outside. Sometimes they look like being low maintenance. Independent. Chill. Private. Easygoing. And the hard part is that people may have praised you for the very things that were actually survival strategies. They liked that you didn’t need much. They admired that you handled everything alone. They called you calm, mature, flexible, or easy to be around. But sometimes those traits were built in an environment where having needs felt unsafe. Where asking for help led to disappointment. Where showing emotion made things worse. Where having an opinion came with consequences. That’s one of the complicated parts of complex PTSD. It can blur the line between who you are and what you had to become in order to stay safe. CPTSD recovery isn’t about rejecting your whole personality. It’s about getting curious. Which parts are truly yours? Which parts were protection? And which parts are you finally allowed to choose now? Which one did people compliment you for? #cptsd #cptsdsymptoms #cptsdrecovery #cptsdawareness #complexptsd
Them: “I really like your personality!” Me: “thanks, I made this one just for you.” 😌
2026-06-10 22:01:46
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khajiit has comments :
so I'm not a person at all, all that I am is just a bundle of trauma responses
2026-06-11 07:06:20
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helonrth :
This is so true. I was diagnosed last year and I have all of these
2026-06-24 01:52:31
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𝕹𝖊𝖔𝖓 𝕱𝖆𝖚𝖓 :
I was so low maintenance that I got an autoimmune disease and now I’m the most high maintenance person I know.
2026-06-11 21:56:35
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$Angel14318 🥰🤗💙💜ASD :
my cprsd is so bad I'm convinced nobody likes me. when ppl actually show kindness alarms go off.
2026-06-13 18:11:06
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jk_lifes_too_short :
Everyone asks me how I handle it all. My answer is “I never had a choice not to.” I have every one of these symptoms. I don’t know how else to be. I’m 37. I’m stuck in my ways and I don’t think it’s going to change anytime soon. Who’s got me? Me. That’s always been it. Just me.
2026-06-09 01:49:55
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Neurospicymumma :
you basically just described everything about me..
2026-06-13 12:53:31
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❀Kat❀𖤣𖥧.𖤣𖥧𓆏𖡼.𖤣𖥧𖡼.𖤣❀ :
ok but I'd like to add the note that while youre 100% correct on the low maintenance point another detail is that I got use to getting nothing for so long that now it doesn't take much to please me. and yes, im aware how bad that is. its not a good thing or a flex.
2026-06-14 14:06:08
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MetalAsmr :
I was diagnosed lately with Autism and adhd but by the sound of it I have also cptsd too ( which makes sense) and gosh I’m tired 😪
2026-06-11 20:00:19
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lyza 🏳️🌈 🇦🇺🍉 :
im always told im too kind. I now know its fawning and its detrimental
2026-06-11 00:30:03
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Beautiful Chaos 65 :
I have finally been diagnosed with CPSD yet I knew decades ago. You can’t even jump scare me. My nerves are so done. Lost the ability to cry from emotion. I think we go private because we know people will eventually see there is something wrong. Weird to live this way. I am highly functional
2026-06-23 21:46:39
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Atypical.Annalisa :
Can we just talk about how hard it is to accept that every aspect of your personality is actually just a trauma response? I thought I had a firm grasp of who I was and actually thought my experiences were somehow unique. It sucks when you realize that once you peel away all the defense mechanisms there isn’t much left of you.
2026-06-11 12:19:23
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mollyknapp32 :
It took my best friend 25 years to convince me that it’s ok to ask for and accept help.
2026-06-12 18:50:40
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Freemind🔻 :
All of the above
2026-06-11 04:12:24
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Misty :
Oh yeah, I have no actual personality probably. It’s ALL survival. I’m 42 and untangling everything now.
2026-06-24 00:15:04
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anna :
Why you gotta call me out like dis Aaron 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
2026-06-23 21:32:44
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Aric Radcliffe Deard :
I dont suppose there is already that video out on "who am I?"
2026-06-23 21:17:05
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Amandapanda81 :
Not mad at all, in fact, I've never felt more validated and seen
2026-06-14 15:47:38
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Mama Bird :
It's always the constant struggle. I've never been diagnosed because I learned early on that wanting to see a therapy was reserved for "real" problems. To this day I still couldn't tell you what's me vs what's masked because I literally have no idea how to function otherwise.
2026-06-13 18:14:31
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Renee :
I overshare instead of keeping it in. Especially to someone that is a brief encounter. Im guessing because I need to let it out and it doesnt matter after that...seeing them again will be rare if ever. Did I guess that one right?
2026-06-10 22:38:36
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🔮🧿Intuitive_Kat🧿🔮 :
I have been called out
2026-06-09 00:24:12
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Sarah Powell :
leave me alone AARON 😭
2026-06-12 16:24:20
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wonderfrog :
my friends called me a social chameleon. I got on just as well at posh ballroom as I did in biker bars. I used to be proud of that until my therapist said it was a severe fawn response. I changed my personality to fit the circumstances so I didnt stand out. that was a crazy bit of knowledge.
2026-06-14 21:36:17
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san 🐯🪷 :
I just got out of my therapy session and this is what the algorithm wants me to watch now.. alright 🧍♀️(you were spot on fr dude, dang)
2026-06-11 15:36:25
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