julia 𝜗𝜚𓈒
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az in kr 🇵🇭🇰🇷 :
Currently loving an avoidant, and I honestly don’t agree with don’t love an avoidant. It’s hard sometimes, yes, but not all of them are impossible to love. Some are trying, healing, and learning too. It only becomes draining when only one person is trying to make it work.
2026-06-09 12:09:50
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Marisa Herron :
“How to love an avoidant” - Don’t
2026-06-09 18:40:22
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mélaine ✪ :
just for her to leave when i've tried everything to make her comfortable
2026-08-03 22:02:47
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secret :
it's really hard, but you just have to push thru with it. it's all about being patient, understanding, and communicating. that's what is helping me atm
2026-08-04 08:56:29
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coleen amabel :
As an anxious person who was in a relationship with an avoidant, you’ll be the one carrying the relationship. You will be exhausted because you’ll do the emotional work for two people 💔
2026-06-09 12:39:59
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nextpageplease :
not for the weak and never again It will work if the other person makes it work too, but if the only one who reaches out then you're done.
2026-06-09 04:29:46
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Presly :
It is so challenging. I’m trying to respect boundaries, but it also has made me wonder, when are his boundaries detrimental to my own needs? If he needs days of space after an argument, but I like to fix things right away, shouldn’t there be a compromise? It kind of sucks having to go along with whatever they need and putting our own needs on the back burner
2026-06-11 12:52:36
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f7_ginoski :
they cared about their own peace,but destroyed mine
2026-08-01 08:32:13
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Angiew0922 :
I’m anxious attachment dating an avoidant. I won’t say don’t do it because every day I’m grateful for him in my life. It’s worth it but takes a lot of effort. If you find an avoidant who truly cares about you they will make an effort to hear you out, they’ll want to communicate. It takes two to make it work. I give him space and I learn about myself and how to cope during times he needs to recharge. I express my needs gently and during the right times and each time he comes in closer rather than retreat. Learn about each other. If both of you want to be together, you’ll find a way to make it work.
2026-06-10 21:46:46
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rina :
guys do NOT do ts im begging you 💔💔💔
2026-06-09 04:23:03
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katiaraaa_ :
loving an avoidant is not for the weak
2026-06-09 08:22:57
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エリカ :
I used to date an avoidant , meanwhile I noticed I become like him 🔄
2026-07-30 16:29:55
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i was carrying our relationship and she ended it because she was tired
2026-06-25 04:01:56
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urrgemm :
Loving an avoidant doesn’t mean they don’t care about you. It means understanding that love can look different for them. They may struggle to express their feelings, ask for space when things get overwhelming, or keep their walls up longer than most. They don’t need to be chased, fixed, or forced to open up, they need patience, consistency, reassurance, and a safe space where they can be vulnerable without fear. Sometimes their distance isn’t a reflection of how much they love you. It’s simply the way they’ve learned to protect themselves.
2026-06-13 15:00:45
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KINGSMAN :
It’s ruining my damn life.
2026-06-17 18:50:23
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𝓕𝓻𝓪𝓷𝓬𝓲🐢 :
I tried, I lost myself
2026-06-30 15:26:20
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lauren :
nah I’m never doing that ever again, please do not sacrifice your peace and happiness for someone who is incapable of loving you the way you want to be loved.
2026-06-09 02:51:06
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Idk name :
I'm doing everything and nothing at the same time. I'm requesting her decision while being punished for not insisting.
2026-07-21 17:25:28
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maki :
it’s not, not for the weak
2026-06-22 19:13:14
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Freja Jean :
As someone healing anxious attachment, I’ve learned this: loving an avoidant isn’t the destination. Learning to stay connected to yourself while loving anyone is. That’s what changes everything🥺 so for my anxiously attached people, don't lose yourself in the process please!
2026-06-29 12:35:09
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jhian :
i’ve been with an avoidant person before, and it was really draining. i eventually got tired of always being the one reaching out. in our relationship, i was pretty much the only one making the effort, and when i stopped, no one reached out anymore.
2026-06-10 21:48:15
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