@bennylichtenwalner: If your ex broke up with you out of the blue without giving any reasons or the reasons that they gave didn’t make sense, it’s because they are conflict avoidant. Conflict of avoiding individuals, usually undergo neglect and childhood, which doesn’t allow for them to explore their own feelings. They have a harder upbringing, and therefore there’s not room for this kind of thing. Unfortunately, this plays out in your relationship. DM me the word magnet for help getting them back.