Last month my dad just called me while I was at work and told me I should go and do my clearance that day. My school is literally in another town and I had already decided that I would go the next week. I told him that I can't go and that I was at work, he said then you'll go tomorrow and cut the call before I could speak. I decided then that I wasn't going next week anymore, I was going to do that clearance the next month just to spite him. The next morning he came to my room by 6 am to tell me that why am I not ready to leave, I didn't say anything oh. I just took my bath and left for work. We had an argument that day. Then the next, then the next and then on the fourth day he finally asked, why don't I want to do my own clearance. I told him I'll go and do it when I want to and he can't just impose his time on me without asking me first, then we had another argument. I sha did my clearance two months later
2026-06-09 10:50:18
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Purple palace :
My church , Dominion city teaches emotional maturity
2026-06-09 08:22:56
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talkwithtori_ :
Do you know that if someone call you disrespectful you’re making the right decision? That’s what I believe
2026-06-09 08:42:14
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COHNFHIDENCE🥰 :
exactly what my husband did during his brother's child dedication. he said I'll go on Saturday to help out with cooking and sleep there till Sunday the event. I said okay but on that day I didn't go anywhere, he was like babe aren't you going again? I told him it's like he's not okay, he didn't even consult me to know if it's okay by me or if I even want to go, he understood immediately and apologized. he had to call his sisters to tell them his wife is indisposable and can't come but we will come the next day together. then we talked about it, I told him I'm his wife not someone he just picked somewhere, I told him he should has asked for my opinion or what I think about his decisions since I'm the one going there. he apologized and I apologized for telling him he's not okay.
I'm a first child and imposing stuffs on me doesn't go well with me cos I don't impose stuffs on my siblings and even my husband. communication matters, meeting your partner halfway matters too.
2026-06-24 10:53:54
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Ms. Estelle 🫂 :
I'm not married yet but this is very annoying.
Husband: I said we are going to my mother's place
ME: And I said, you dey go na 😒
2026-06-09 10:04:48
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Lady of the blade 🥷 :
is marriage even worth it? The amount of anxiety I’m getting just listening to you
2026-06-09 10:21:54
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candybby12 :
Omo my parents thought me how to disagree oo my parents always tell us to say no if we are not comfortable with it 😂😂😂 very intelligent parents
2026-06-09 06:37:34
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Promzy26❤️ :
Disagreement is not disrespect but people lack comprehension
2026-06-09 08:15:46
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Plutoboyyyyyy :
This story is triggering ooo
2026-06-09 05:04:56
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Favorite💗💞 :
When I get married me and my husband will be playing your videos every night and ask each other questions about what we learnt every single night before bed
2026-07-13 15:06:41
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Maureenn :
A lot of unlearning and relearning is needed
2026-06-09 08:03:14
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Rohzmayreal :
E never even finish his sentence, I go don say NO
HIM: Babe we are going to my mum's place for this year's Chris...
ME: NO 😂😂😂😂😂
2026-06-09 07:26:14
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Clintonez :
Not responding at first is disrespectful
2026-06-10 13:08:32
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Geraldine :
Honey we are travelling to the village next week. Me: okay, safe journey babe.
2026-06-11 14:43:50
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꧁༒☬CHUKWUEBUKA☬༒꧂ :
just know that your no is the beginning of so many No(s) that will come in the future and everyone will live happily ever after
2026-06-10 19:33:11
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pman :
This is pure resentment and not ego thing. The man meant no harm but the lady had an unhealed hurt against the man which was supposed to have been discussed before now.
2026-07-17 15:02:02
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korty😝🌸✨ :
I just realized I’ve been doing this to my younger siblings .. now i feel terrible
2026-07-18 01:27:16
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Ziryab 🤍 :
I think they should stop paying bride price…men lay much emphasis on it and the money is little money being paid …controlling a woman because of peanut being paid as bride price
2026-08-01 17:15:04
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John Adejoh🇳🇬🇬🇧🇲🇸 :
well articulated Gloria.
I particularly liked the way you dissected this...so informative for men especially🙂.
In the end how we communicate matters to our spouse and children matters 100%
Thank you
2026-06-09 09:30:36
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styledbymide02 :
This is enlightening but then again marriage is stressful as hell😩😩
2026-06-09 07:33:52
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dinewithmelody :
I just remember something, make I go tell my papa NO
2026-06-09 10:59:56
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TULIP🌷 :
I have never denied having an ego, a very high one. My ego also guides my conduct with people. I don't speak to people, young or old in a way that will trigger me if they match my energy. But disrespect is something I don't permit at all.
2026-06-09 07:48:34
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👑First_Lady✨🦋💜 :
Everyone has pride … treat an adult as an adult and not as a child. Respect goes both ways
2026-06-11 21:46:24
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Range :
Why make it a big deal? She could have answered him the first time and also explain her own pov instead of being rude by ignoring him the first time,that’s what I think tho I may be wrong but I think there are better ways to approach such situations
2026-06-09 10:05:24
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