@reddithaba0: I invited him to our vacation. "You can stay home if you have a problem with that," she said after I found his name on our hotel reservation. I smiled and said, "Enjoy the trip." I cancelled both their tickets that night, booked an earlier flight, and was already at the hotel when they found out at check-in. She left a voice message screaming for 4 minutes straight. I listened to all of it from the balcony, then sent her a photo of the ocean and turned my phone off.