@elly.psychologist: Leaving an emotionally abusive relationship is never as straightforward as people think. Even after you see the reality and decide to leave, you might find yourself doubting your decision, feeling grief, or missing the person you left behind. It is common to go through cycles of wanting to fix things, questioning yourself, and feeling stuck between your needs and the hope that things could change. This back-and-forth is a normal part of the process, and many people experience it before they are finally able to break free. If you are struggling with these feelings, be patient with yourself. Healing from an emotionally abusive relationship takes time and self-compassion, and it is okay to have mixed emotions along the way #emotionallyabusiverelationship #emotionalabuse #relationshipabuse #relationshiptok #Relationship
Elly | Counseling Psychologist
Region: GB
Tuesday 09 June 2026 13:57:25 GMT
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Kelly :
This is me right now. But I am not in a position to leave. I'm struggling with the realisation the person I have been with for 20 years is not the person I thought he was. That the love bombing is a tactic.
2026-06-09 14:07:08
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Phil :
love this thank you, I moved out 8 months ago and still get emotional abuse at a distance whilst we still have full financial ties and all conversations go nowhere, but yet he still offers help with anything else. its confusing as hell, but it was the right decision for both my physical and mental health despite the heartbreak
2026-06-11 07:35:49
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heyitshols_🖤 :
what if I do see the damage but still feel like I cant leave? its been 11 years
2026-06-15 20:18:14
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George Charles :
Over a year on and I still couldn’t tell you what happened
2026-06-13 06:10:42
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zelair :
Hi do you brake the cycle
2026-06-14 00:28:53
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Corey Elmore :
This is exactly what I’m going through.
2026-06-09 22:01:03
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(Angie)Aᐣgᐁᓬᐊᐳᕒᑌᕒ 👑💐😈 :
Thank you that is very helpful. Puts my mind at ease that this normal, and to not be so hard on myself. ☺️
2026-06-10 16:50:47
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Savannah :
We have kids and it makes it feel like i need to keep trying since they’re so small 😭
2026-06-12 18:56:23
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Anniepie :
I feel like you have looked into my heart to tell me this! Thank you. 💜
2026-06-09 20:33:34
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kimischus :
I love your videos - so. Spot. On.
2026-06-10 23:44:45
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Emma :
I loved him so much 😭😭😭😭
2026-06-09 20:33:37
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me and the boys :
I did a year 12 and left in year 13. I still doubt myself; I am fighting every day to find my self-confidence.
2026-06-09 19:08:57
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Donna Young :
This is where I’m at
2026-06-09 17:56:36
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user9267822965121 :
Please share more.
2026-06-11 08:52:25
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Clement :
help
2026-06-09 20:43:56
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nelsontim :
I have some questions for you
2026-06-09 23:44:35
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Bondimb3001 :
So true…happening right now.
2026-06-10 11:08:25
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Kerry Tibbs :
it took me 2 years to leave and I just had to leave without her knowing because she would love bomb me. she is now being awkward about me getting the rest of my stuff. my head is all over the place but I just have to remind myself I am emotionally safe and physically safe.
2026-06-09 14:50:10
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Tracey :
I was seeing it in summer 25 tried every month to leave… he kept pulling me back in until dec25 he discarded me after love bombing me again… but I didn’t feel single he controlled me for another 5 months it’s been awful. I tried and tried he just controlled me and I was getting worse with my mental health because of it.
2026-06-13 22:54:25
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Jenée :
I left a 12 year relationship. I left a year ago and I’m still doubting if leaving was the best thing. I left for the kids, I forbid raising my children in a chaotic household 💪🏽
2026-06-09 19:31:06
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Giggs 💜🇨🇾💙 :
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
2026-06-11 11:39:48
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Sharon Jones :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-09 23:52:17
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