You’ve had to push away parts of your grief to survive pregnancy and postpartum - your nervous system is feeling safe enough to let in the next kind of wave - thinking of you💕
2026-06-09 19:33:53
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Megan :
Lost my dad 3 years ago- the anniversary is coming up in 11 days. And each year I just become more heartbroken. Because every year it feels even more permanent. Which sounds crazy.
2026-06-09 19:22:43
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Rhythm & Flow :
Just a reminder: The point of life is to love and grow. That's all. That's the base of it all.
2026-06-09 20:46:03
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Landry :
it’s how it comes in the most random, most subtle times. Just out of no where!
2026-06-09 18:29:15
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geeeyejo :
Lost my dad in 2024 and I still have days like this. Why isn’t he here? How can things go on? Why can’t I tell him about this? When I see my husband and my son I remember why I’m here and what the point is. Thinking of you sis. 🤍
2026-06-09 18:54:49
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Giakeegan :
I lost my dad in February this year, I am only 20 years old and all i have on my mind is how much of my life I have to live without him. I always urge myself to change my mindset and know that I have so many years to live for him, let him see me happy, and make him proud ❤️🩹
2026-06-09 19:40:34
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Ashley Mulligan :
I lost my Dad in January, a month before I gave birth to my daughter. Just know you are not alone. Hold onto your babies. Someone told me once that when they smile in their sleep, they are playing with someone you love in heaven. I hold onto that every day.
2026-06-09 20:05:43
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HH3604 :
My Dads bday is today. He passed in 2007. It freaking hurts and sucks. But how lucky were we to have someone in our lives that loved us so much. Youre not alone ❤️❤️
2026-06-09 19:23:02
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Erin :
You don’t need to be fine! Grief doesn’t fade. You’ll always miss him. And that’s okay! You mentioned questioning “what’s the point?”. Hailey, you are. And your boys. Your husband. Your life is the point! And your dad would want you to live it to the fullest ❤️
2026-06-09 19:13:14
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Ashley :
It’s been 22 years and I get through by telling myself that when I see my father again he’ll be proud of the legacy I extended for him. Live for them ♥️♥️♥️
2026-06-09 18:40:09
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ene is muva :
Something I’ve learned is to let the grief be. When grief arrives, the impulse is to solve for it so it can hurry up and leave. But grief is love with nowhere to go, and if we’re doing life right, we will love and we will lose for certain. Grief is the permanent roommate you didn’t bargain for. It’s grating in the beginning, but it deserves the space to just be. If you don’t make room for it, it will make room for itself. Let the grief be. We’ll be here. ❤️
2026-06-09 22:38:56
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Frankie_BernieBee :
It never gets easier, but it does get lighter
2026-06-09 18:32:59
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Kira Brianne :
My sister passed away 9 years ago and I still experience different stages that I didn’t think could exist. You’re not alone mama. You’re strong.
2026-06-09 18:30:35
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cassbutlerxo :
grief is so viscous. it never ends, it just transforms. sharing builds community, community is how you not just survive but find ways to enjoy life thru the grief. 🫶🏽
2026-06-09 23:11:09
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Privateaccount1234 :
Hi Hailey. The point is the love. The blessing of it and the pain for missing it. Thinking of you. You’re very strong.
2026-06-09 23:10:52
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naunip4 :
My Mom died 6-12-13 and I still get the urge to call and tell her things.
2026-06-10 11:58:23
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user73884643123 :
Do not think you should be better- you have to give yourself space
2026-06-09 19:02:27
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the capitaine :
Let Jesus heal your heart
2026-06-09 18:33:20
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Sheryl :
Grief has no timeline. It will show up when you least expect it. It will knock you flat down. You have to feel it, allow yourself to cry. Missing someone never gets easier. You learn over time how to cope and move through it. Also give yourself grace. You’ve recently had a baby and your body is on an hormonal roller coaster.
2026-06-30 03:14:44
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Erin :
There is no timeline on grief, how you’re feeling is normal. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I am walking through a season of grief also. You’re allowed to feel and grieve the way that you currently are. Also I understand how it’s wild when you discover how many different levels of grief there are.
2026-06-11 21:39:35
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Kelly Willoughby :
9 and a half months with out your dad, you’re still going through the firsts… it takes time, you’re adjusting to being a mom, a wife and a grieving daughter ❤️❤️❤️be gentle on yourself.
2026-06-13 02:54:45
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MommaRamirez :
Grief is weird. It’s like glitter. At fitits everywhere and overwhelming. You clean it up and just when you think it’s all gone…boom there it is again..more glitter. It never truly goes away. You just get better at cleaning it up. Sending you hug. 🥰
2026-06-10 21:08:06
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abusivebandito :
Finding joy and peace in the small moments is the point when you’re struggling find some happiness when you can
2026-06-10 02:45:24
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mickmarlowmusic :
Aw man Hailey I know this doesn’t mean much from me but sending all the hugs.. this made me sad. Both of you guys are some of the kindest best people I know. Miss you guys. Ps. give Chris from me too please!! 🖤
2026-06-11 04:30:05
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