@drewwdaniels: You have to do “cringe” things to create a relationship you want to be present for. You can’t simply go to therapy, and start feeling emotions and have a “happy” relationship. You need to feel fondness. You need to feel warmth towards them. And part of that is choosing to do cringey things that feel too vulnerable. #avoidantattachment #avoidantpartner #anxiousattachment

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hannalorei
Johannannanna :
put this on his fyp not mine
2026-06-11 22:23:42
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missbiotch80
Btchonamission :
I think my eye contact also has to do with my asd . But I’m a self aware avoidant … I’m working on it . But doing all this and being self aware , doesn’t help 😭
2026-06-09 20:48:35
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nurstink
Nurstink :
Hey I have been doing the things I hate for years at this point …. And I lost the plot on my own heart. So no… no more
2026-06-26 12:01:36
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studio.escargot
escargot 🐌 :
can you say more about acknowledging your partners positive attributes? I didnt know that went into it
2026-08-06 18:51:14
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789userrrr
abc123 :
Why do DA’s have such a hard time with eye contact??? My partner never gives me eye contact when I’m just having a normal conversation with him. It’s so frustrating!!!
2026-06-09 19:35:11
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caitielcs
Caitie :
I’m autistic I’m not doing eye contact. I can work on the rest though
2026-07-28 18:16:26
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sdwfo0
Sunshine :
nope it just sounds impossible
2026-07-01 00:14:55
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oozeghost
jooli :
the focusing on the positive attributes is HUGE. being hurt is ok, being uncomfortable is normal, but always remember the good and push that to the front because your attachment thrives in that negative cesspool, it justifies your avoidance and self sabotage. avoid black and white thinking and do what you aren't used to- show up with vulnerability and self love.
2026-07-25 05:24:04
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zephyyy124
Mutt 🐾 :
may this vid go through his fyp, im anxious att and it's been SO HARD
2026-07-24 12:15:24
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watermelephant
Niki :
What if he does love anything? Rather…doesn’t get excited for anything?
2026-06-10 16:09:48
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csmtn
Call me what you want… :
My therapist agrees… 😳
2026-06-09 23:00:20
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24k_lububu
24k_lububu :
They can’t by definition
2026-06-09 23:06:24
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