@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights If you're in no contact with an avoidant attachment style partner, one of the hardest things to understand is that avoidant attachment doesn't always look like indifference. Many avoidants engage in avoidance behaviors during no contact that help them suppress emotions, distract themselves, and maintain emotional distance rather than process the breakup. This is why an avoidant ex may seem fine, move on quickly, stay busy, avoid conversations about the relationship, jump into distractions, or act as though the connection never mattered. These behaviors are often coping strategies, not proof that they never cared. If you're struggling to survive no contact with an avoidant, remember that their avoidance behaviors are about emotional regulation, not your worth. Focus on your own healing, rebuilding your self-esteem, and breaking the cycle of chasing validation from someone who is emotionally unavailable. Have you noticed these avoidance behaviors from your avoidant ex during no contact? #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentstyles #mentalhealthmatters

ReelHuntress :

Mine doesn’t even orbit. Guess they are over me lol

bob :

He unfollowed me

EGonza🌙 :

So accurate, after almost 4 months of no contact for second time, he recently liked a post

Winter :

Posting a song called “The More You Ignore Me The Closer I Get” after 3 weeks on delivered? 😭

Natasha Smith :

He’s viewing all my stories on social media.. is this considered orbiting ? 🥺

me :

mine in her own words sent a thirst trap post I waited a day before liking it but im in the space where I still care for her but I care for me more

tini :

He texted me after a week of no contact and the break up saying “ hey, how are you ? It’s okay if you don’t want to text yet” that night we talked for 5 hours… now it’s just an up and down I don’t know what to do anymore 😕

Courtney Leuellen :

He called two of my children but not me!

Juanito, aka Doner :

I started seeing that and I chose to remove them from my followers in all socials, and I also stopped following him. every time got a notification, my heart would start racing

Manito :

he dont give a fuck about me 🫠 even tho he said he misses and loves me when we broke up. im cooked.

Kimmy :

My ex has no social media, so his approach is sending me gifts on Pokémon go..🫠

Matt Kerney :

Oh this is happening now lol

pixichlo2 :

Blocked me off everything

Asinine :

songs, she posts songs that I know are directed towards me

Ekavi :

if he is got you blocked everywhere?

nesb :

He sent an SOS from his watch this past Thursday after over 2 months no contact.. and when I didn’t respond he continued to send multiple text with the last one being a ❤️.. I still haven’t replied to his texts

Tin :

Does an IG follow request of his College friend whom met once is also an Orbting? because I received a follow request from his College friend. but I didn't accept it

🕊🩵🕊 DoeEyes 🕊🩵🕊 :

Niq :

He has stopped orbiting. What do you think of Lance Mikkel?

Helen :

Been no contact since Nov/Dec. He has been in a new relationship since Jan. From March, he was checking my insta stories daily for several weeks. I made him stop, as said he didn’t want me in his life, so he doesn’t get to view mine on insta. He stopped. But now he checks my WhatsApp status daily!! We never communicated via WhatsApp. It was always iMessage.

Moe dawg13 :

Or she will reach out and say happy birthday

Ilayali Ramirez :

Mine contacts my friends directly but never me

SP 🖤 :

How can they… he is blocked on everything

. ••• :

So whats the point of him doing that many times even tho im not reaching out. What is he thinkinggg

laly :

what if he liked my story for the first time ever.. even when we were together he didn't??