@natnirch: Why is it looked at as a strategic/smart coaching decision for other sports to make playing time adjustments but when cheer coaches do it, we get labeled as “creating drama” ???🤷🏻♀️ #cheercoach #cheerleading #cheertok
The difference is that the parents are paying insane amounts of money, time, and energy just to have their child pulled at the last minute to secure a win. Travel time, hotel reservations, food costs, countless hours prepping for a comp just to have a kid pulled at the 11th hour is crazy. Other sports don’t have quite the same commitment. I don’t know if you already do, but if that’s the culture you want to have, make it known in advance. I wouldn’t sign up to spend $10k+ per year knowing you might pull my kid at the last second.
2026-06-09 23:19:18
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dianthe :
Let me be clear, I ABSOLUTELY support a Coach’s decision to pull kids off the mat. But it’s apples and oranges. Are you pulling an athlete or replacing an athlete? Because you can’t play football without a QB. And there’s always a back up. Also, are you pulling an athlete at “game time” or a week before the comp? Had a conversation been had prior to pulling them warning that they could be pulled or are you just saying a day before the comp, “Sorry, you’re out”. If you’re doing it correctly, then there shouldn’t be any drama.
2026-06-24 00:09:59
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Heather Hardcastle :
They think it’s personal, but it’s really not
2026-07-25 20:29:35
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Cody Pierce :
Sorry those are not similar scenarios at all.
2026-06-27 14:37:22
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coachlish_81 :
I literally had this EXACT thing happen… parent made up a book of lies to have me removed from the team. INSANE!
2026-06-10 21:38:01
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breakfast.candy :
We got to nationals and for some reason I couldn’t throw my back handspring so guess what happened? I didn’t compete. I sat on the sidelines with my coach and cheered on my team. No tears, no attitude.
2026-07-03 21:48:41
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JCHudg :
If I could share this 100000x I would ! Man .. this is another reason why this will be my very last season coaching
2026-06-20 16:52:34
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✨ the Jesie Marie ✨ :
So true! I use other sports as examples all the time. No football coach would ever let a kid continue to play if they were late back to the game after halftime…. If it was my cheerleader they would sit. But I would be the bad guy. 🤷♀️
2026-06-12 01:34:45
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NicNo :
Playing devils advocate here: You can only have one quarterback on the field for football. How would this thought change your opinion or does it?
2026-06-10 02:07:51
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WMS Cheer :
Love your hair
2026-07-07 16:53:26
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♛ :
If you’re putting all this money to expect performing then you’re doing it for the wrong reason. It’s a sport. Tough decisions will be made for what’s best for the team.
2026-06-13 20:12:09
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DL :
100%! It’s so frustrating
2026-06-10 12:03:28
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jennyb114 :
The way I’d be FIRED.
2026-06-24 12:35:58
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Sarah Shortridge Lam :
Truth
2026-06-14 19:29:20
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Hey Jas :
This is spot on.
2026-07-03 16:42:20
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brbr436 :
It doesn’t make sense to me that cheer coaches don’t get much respect. I understand what your saying
2026-06-15 01:47:52
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Beach Time Fun Time :
My daughter is still the only cheerleader to become a UCA Cheer Coach from her days of cheering up until now. You can imagine the jealousy she went through. Thank you for being the coach those girls needed.
2026-06-11 13:06:39
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Kris McKim :
Cheer scoring is a numbers game. Gotta make the math math.
2026-06-18 07:08:51
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Beach Time Fun Time :
And most cheer moms live vicariously through their daughters so they cannot tolerate their daughter not being on the mat during the competition.
2026-06-10 03:49:44
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Kelly :
Cheer coaches are NOT seen or respected as real coaches. Often we are the “just for fun club” coaches
2026-06-10 23:32:40
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She’sDrew :
Agree with you, BUT, basketball and football parents are just as entitled.
2026-06-12 07:12:48
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MarStar1102 :
Ok Spencer from PLL doubleganger
2026-08-04 19:02:46
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Elle Wiley :
Imagine a hockey mom asks for a full refund from a hockey youth program just because he didn’t make varsity his freshman year.
2026-06-10 11:53:01
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Heather Larsen :
👏👏👏
2026-06-14 20:21:47
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