@coachbryanclark: Many men were taught that sex is about performance. But sex isn’t always about completion. Sometimes your partner wants to feel close without the expectation of it leading somewhere. Sensuality is the ability to experience connection through your senses rather than treating every moment of physical affection like a pathway to a specific outcome. Ironically, the less attached you become to where intimacy is “supposed” to go, the more connected both people tend to feel. #avoidant #relationships #relationshipadvice #avoidantattachment #fixitorfeelit