@hannah_speaks1: Sometimes the hardest relationships to leave are the ones that never became official. A situationship can feel like a relationship without giving you the security of one. You talk every day. You share your feelings. You spend time together. You care about each other. But when you ask where things are going, the answer is always unclear. The problem isn't that you don't have feelings. The problem is that you're investing relationship-level emotions into a connection that refuses to offer relationship-level commitment. You keep waiting for things to change. You tell yourself they just need more time. You ignore the mixed signals because the good moments feel so real. But real love doesn't leave you constantly wondering where you stand. A healthy relationship may have challenges, but it shouldn't leave you confused about whether you're wanted. The painful truth is that many people stay in situationships because they're attached to the potential, not the reality. Don't fall in love with who someone could become. Pay attention to who they are right now. Because the longer you stay in something undefined, the harder it becomes to walk away from what you deserve. ❤️ Sometimes letting go is an act of self-respect. 💬 Have you ever been in a situationship?#Situationship #SituationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #ModernDating
3 years I was in a situationship. He would constantly tell me he didn’t want to be with me but still had me around and our bond felt so special and I fell in love! He then met someone else and I’ve been treating it like a break up but reality is it was never a relationship! I’m on the mend now but wow harder than my marriage ending! 💔
2026-06-11 19:13:19
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nicolagleeson92 :
17month situationship we was both seening other people but both wasn’t happy about each other seening other people .. I decided to walk away 3 days ago .🫰🏻🥰
2026-06-11 16:54:04
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Phoenix🐦🔥 :
I was in a situationship.
ooh my god did it break me.
I never such a dark place existed, all those empty promises and plans we made all for him to talk to my friend and she gave him an ultimatum if he wanted to talk to her, he'd have to stop talking to me. and that's exactly whatever did.
eventually he blocked me and stopped talking to her. how much I wanted to tell her " karma is a bee ain't it"
2026-06-12 22:35:53
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Caroline Quirke :
Why are these people so afraid to let people in & because of that barrier they ended up losing out.. 🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
2026-06-12 22:51:12
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Tiksu :
I was in a situationship with my ex dismissive avoidant gf for a year and she wanted everything that belongs to a real relationship, but I didn't even get the bare minimum back. She threw me out of her life like trash. She took everything from the situationship without giving anything back. I am so mentally broken. It's so painful 💔🥺
2026-06-11 11:15:03
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nikkilou :
13 years i held on for, took what I needed from it, but the lines do get blurred, waited to be choosen but that never came so I choose myself, we don't speak as much anymore but I'm OK with that he knows where I am, I know where he is, I do believe it's a love that you can't explain, but it's a love that is not really meant to be ❤️
2026-06-12 08:36:14
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Jo :
19 month draining
2026-06-11 21:08:25
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Nicky Adams246 :
4 years , then he found someone else while I was looking after my dying sister
2026-06-11 17:57:13
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Frannie :
totally agree 🥰🌹✨
2026-06-11 12:37:02
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natalie 💞💝 :
So painful and one of the hardest things I have ever had to do ❤️
2026-06-11 04:59:13
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Kerry 🦋💫 :
Yesss 🥺♥️
2026-06-11 16:32:26
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MeowBorahae :
1 year in situationship nagkatampuhan lang last March luh no contact na til now walang maayos na usapan dami na nya demands pag magreply sa message ngyn 2 days pa samantalang dati sya nag initiate mag message daily 🙄😭 sinanay ako sa mga bagay na di nmn dapat ngyn ang shakeeet 😭
2026-06-12 11:57:55
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Pammy :
5yrs but have now walked away, self respect 💕
2026-06-12 22:28:21
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Jen’s :
2 years in 🥺 can’t walk away
2026-06-12 11:23:51
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Jun28 :
I want to know...if its so long...for men...why dont u ask her to be ur girl?
2026-06-12 11:39:07
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AvaDCPT :
so true
2026-06-12 13:01:04
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🇨🇦northerncanuck5677 🇨🇦 :
I was in a situationship for a 1yr I unfollowed her on all socials to step back take my energy back then she blocked me
2026-06-11 22:36:29
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S*t*e*p*h :
3 year situationship, can't let go
2026-06-11 22:23:33
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Jackie Knight666 :
just over 2 years now. I can't walk away he's the love if my life. but it's painful every time he leaves me
2026-06-12 06:18:22
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Chante Prudance :
spot on🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-11 05:36:12
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🕊️🕊️annedittoxj2🕊️🕊️ :
6years situationship 😢 it’s hard he knows I love him and care about him . But don’t want a relationship he don’t see the benefits of a relationship 🥹
2026-06-11 19:57:51
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Delia :
True words
2026-06-11 04:24:34
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Christopher Ward737 :
Betrayal For 30 pieces Of Silver.And A Promise.Amen.😳
2026-06-11 11:12:21
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Queen of the South :
I am falling apart everyday and I am scared, I am lost and he chooses to be silent😭
2026-06-12 10:59:30
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Grund Pavilon :
I think sometimes to love, even if it is painful, it is better than do not feel anything. We have to find balance in every relation- or situationship.
2026-06-13 02:47:49
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