Chelsea Hunter
Region: AU
Wednesday 10 June 2026 01:37:40 GMT
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Christine :
I failed my son. He’s 21 now and I was 17 when I had him .. he grew up with me. He didn’t deserve that. He’s no contact with me now .. and I understand why. I just try my best to heal, to be patient .. and wait for him to come to me and give me another chance. I miss him with my whole heart.
2026-06-10 21:54:06
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Tali :
At least you’re aware 🫶🏽 - an eldest daughter
2026-06-11 06:13:23
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Bubbly pop :
I feel this in my core.
2026-06-12 23:45:45
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Meg :
And no I don’t want a “retry” with a new one. I want a do over with my first baby
2026-06-11 15:05:16
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If you know, you know :
and then they say "it's ok mummy" 😭😭😭😭
2026-06-11 06:58:08
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Hejajdhevh :
As a first child we know we were the first, and you had us when younger, we understand, but if we point out how you let the younger one get away with the exact same things we were yelled at for, please listen. I'm not saying yell at them too, but letting one get away easily with things hurts to see.
2026-06-11 12:19:46
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🤍 :
literally crying while watching this. i feel guilty everyday. shes so forgiving, i dont deserve her. 😭
2026-06-10 09:53:36
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Maphakiso🎀 :
“Its your first time being a parent don’t be hard on yourself” it is their first time being here too and difference with them is they are just being introduced to the world while you have been here for a while you should know better and be kind
2026-06-12 05:52:39
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Emily Louise :
the fact you can recognise it means you're probably doing a better job than you think.
2026-06-12 15:39:14
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Douri :
To all the moms saying they feel guilty, i hope you make peace with it, you did your best back then, but as a daughter with similar experience, i can tell you: admit it to them, ask for their forgiveness and tell them that u loved them the most, it makes all the difference 🙏
2026-06-10 23:45:20
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BRYNN |MIAMI BLONDE SPECIALIST :
I think so many first-time moms carry this guilt ❤️but your eldest also got something your younger kids never will... every first cuddle, every first milestone and all of your undivided attention. I remember feeling low on energy, emotional and stretched thin trying to do everything perfectly. Then a friend recommended Eat Like a Woman Protocol written by Loren Green. A few months later I was 29 lbs lighter and finally feeling balanced again. My favorite one. Crazy how hidden this kind of info is.
2026-06-11 17:27:50
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Sissy 🫶🏽✨ :
No cos why do I think about this all the time 🥺🥺🥺
2026-06-10 01:51:10
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Immie :
some moms don't feel guilty they just show up better for the kid or kids they want to. The guilt you're feeling is already you healing that part for her
2026-06-10 08:51:53
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Jennay18 :
I felt this.
2026-06-13 01:28:18
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🥀🥀 フナトンヴェスパー🥀🥀 :
I only have 1 kid...I wish I could start over ive been unmedicated for my adhd for a long time and going to try getting back on vyvanse im hoping it'll help again
2026-06-11 05:35:12
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senright19 :
Unpopular opinion: I think my first got the best version of me, I was calm, patient, attentive- my second gets the overwhelmed/overstimulated, busy irritable version, and I hate that for him 💔
2026-06-10 18:29:01
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Rori Me :
Now i put my baby yo sleep feeling the same so bad 😭💕i swear I didn’t know 🥹
2026-06-12 23:10:50
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Tranquility~Healing :
everyday❤️
2026-06-12 21:58:21
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Qw!n Latifah Ka¥ :
how do I do my best because I am trying.. sometimes I get overwhelmed with my own stress and I don't hear her when she's talking about her day..I see her quiet and I remember she was talking about something n I didn't listen because life's hard on me too..I thought providing everything for her was enough love but no it's not, she needs me emotionally too . she's 7 now and I am taking steps to fix all my wrongs,I won't be perfect but at least I will protect her feelings I love her so much..I am only 24 and she's 7
2026-06-12 21:26:31
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DiscoBallEnergy🇨🇦 :
As the eldest, the most memorable and powerful thing my mom did was acknowledge the failings. She's an excellent mum, and those 'failings' were hardly failings to me, because I knew that she was human, too.
2026-06-12 14:15:50
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Claire Brooker :
I feel this but the other way around. I feel like my oldest got the best of me when I wasn’t so exhausted and burnt out and my youngest gets the worst of me because I don’t have the same capacity. Parenting is such a wild journey
2026-06-10 11:51:30
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Maddi :
I will never stop apologizing to them.
2026-06-11 11:19:11
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deniseant8 :
I wish I wasn’t in survival mode all those years I wish she had the soft feminine side of me 💔
2026-06-11 08:05:31
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Andrea Galiano :
You’re not alone. “I’m sorry, you didn’t deserve that” has saved my relationship with my oldest child.
2026-06-11 20:42:41
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blue :
It’s never, ever too late to be the mum she deserves. Start now💕✌and forget the past
2026-06-11 01:41:45
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