@.concrete.rose: Most people don’t keep revisiting pain for no reason; they do it because they still feel unheard, misunderstood, or hurt. Accountability isn’t about accepting blame for everything. It’s about being willing to understand the impact of your actions, even if the harm wasn’t intentional. #fyp

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delightfullydanni0
DelightfullyDanni :
Maturity is realizing that we are all responsible for our own healing.
2026-06-11 14:57:41
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guyfisher30
mrlol130 :
True. But keep a close eye and pay attention. After you done listened n took accountability but it still being brought up, that can be used as a tool of manipulation. I’ve been thru it trust me
2026-06-11 08:46:56
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zackdehart
Zack Dehart :
respectfully you are right, but also so wrong. I hurt you. that moment in time happened. I can reflect, I can change, I can apologize. however the one thing I CAN NOT do is change that moment. does that mean I need to hold myself in that moment every day and make it define me? no thank you. im not angry that I cause the pain. im angry that your so stuck on what happened and use that to miss whats happening or could happen. everything's a lesson either wallow or learn and get better.
2026-06-11 12:20:43
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ryukosenketsu
Annamarie Lugo :
Ok now what if you have taken accountability but they refuse to accept it? Of course you’ll be upset they keep discussing it because you’ve already tried to right and they won’t let go.
2026-06-12 03:14:58
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yeagurlthatzchim
LuvahgirlChim😘 :
What if we talked about it and i took full accountability and apologized over and over and changed my behavior but still it’s still being discussed
2026-06-11 00:56:50
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yettarich83
Yetta T1D Conqueror 🙂💉💐⬇️ :
I brought it up and got ignored, real accountability was never taken just a simple apology for me to hush…. So I did just that HUSHED my mouth and “LET IT & THEM GO”
2026-06-10 23:10:46
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texasmade90
Riek🥶 :
A decade later though? 🥴
2026-06-11 20:34:36
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bigariesinnerg92
BigAriesINNERG92 :
My darling you ateeee this downnn 🙂
2026-06-10 15:58:24
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outofspace222
Julissa Brianna ♡ :
I agree and disagree agree how am i expected to grow and do better when it keeps being brought up after you said I was forgivin . It’s no point of doing better when that’s all that’s looked at you don’t even see the good I’m doing nomore .
2026-06-14 16:53:24
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millerservices1
Miller Services :
Maturity is realizing that we are all responsible for our own healing.
2026-06-12 05:40:33
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jayboog14
Jayboog14 :
So how are we going to fix it if you keep bringing it up
2026-06-12 15:57:03
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laylay____
LayLay :
Side note you’re gorgeous.
2026-06-10 22:49:05
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ashley_nicole319
Ashley Nicole :
I got tired of discussing it and “moving on” only for it to be brought up again at the next problem.
2026-06-12 00:24:27
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nowistime25
reality🦋🦋🦋 :
maturity is you can't keep living in the past,wanting to keep bring it up instead of moving forward
2026-06-11 20:51:21
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gregoryclark0368
Paraclete1110 :
Maturity is also realizing that it's often futile to try and find resolution to your pain from the person that caused it.
2026-06-11 04:58:19
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bigreece9
Parise Adams :
Maturity is realizing that we’re responsible for our own healing and not using that hurt as gaslighting the other person
2026-06-12 03:39:17
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theairyprincess
🦋🌺PrincessA🌺🦋 :
Currently living this. He thinks Im holding a grudge/holding things over his head when Ive repeatedly stated that Im still hurting about it. Ive tried so hard for so long that I dont have it in me to keep trying...
2026-06-11 02:25:41
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inosukevukodlak
Inosuke.vukodlak :
You put effort Into healing not holding onto it
2026-06-10 21:32:34
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2thickfayaazz069
2thickfayaazz069 :
You are my Life Coach and you don’t even know it . Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-10 20:27:36
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snaccqueen
snaccqueen :
maturity is also realizing that if you are still bothered by a hurt that you feel isn’t being addressed the way you want despite repeated attempts, then you need to look at yourself and identify what it is you need to move on and whether or not that person is capable of providing it. dwelling on hurt benefits absolutely no one, so take accountability for your own ability to heal ya damn self.
2026-06-11 12:00:11
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jurocox
Juroco X :
Sure. For processing and healing. However, what if it's out of fear, deflection, and control?
2026-06-10 19:42:03
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mr.fu_qman
Mr_Fu-Q Man :
Double edge sword, If a person can be mature enough to listen and correct themselves, why keep subjecting themselves to the same conversation every other day.. How many days should a person keep listening after the correction has been made?? But you do have a point.
2026-06-11 17:29:04
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gray_685
Gray :
Okay so you did the hurt but three years down the line you still hearing about it what do you do I tried fixing the hurt that I caz over those three years I listen I don’t over talk to make sure she’s heard what else can I do
2026-06-10 22:51:05
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cookiiethagreat
cookiiethagreat :
Public please 😩
2026-06-11 01:19:10
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