I’ve BEEN saying “forgive and forget” only benefits people who do things that need to be forgiven and forgotten…
2026-06-10 17:16:22
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a10reyes :
Okay genuinely, I want her vocabulary when I grow up
2026-06-10 15:47:42
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the wizard :
spite is a powerful motivator
2026-06-10 15:38:04
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Michelle Michelle 💋 :
You can hold grudges without being petty
2026-06-10 20:08:08
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L P :
PEOPLE PLEASING IS OVER
2026-06-10 17:33:59
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Heather Bunni :
I’d follow her into battle
2026-06-11 02:38:49
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doomscroll4daze :
That is actual emotional intelligence! Anger, resentment, pettiness are all normal and very much an evolutionary mechanism of your nervous system trying to protect you. The issue is if it becomes consuming and destructive to yourself AND/OR you try to suppress/pretend they dont exist. Expression even expressing negative emotions is HEALTHY to a certain degree.
2026-06-11 03:36:04
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Cassafrass :
This is basically how I live--I don't forgive or forget, I keep the feeling as a reminder for the next encounter. Unpopular opinion, I think spite saves your peace more than absolution.
2026-06-10 15:47:05
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lilrainbowhippie :
Holding grudges is advocating for yourself to yourself.
2026-06-10 18:30:51
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Scott Smith73496 :
Boy, she got me 200% on board with the presumed future forgiveness. I've had several (former) friends who were shitty to me just assuming all would be forgiven and it was until it was not.
2026-06-10 15:00:00
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refiloe_b25 :
Wellness Industrial Complex is a term I never thought I’d hear and I lowkey like it
2026-06-10 18:15:31
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flourishingwithnysha :
As a therapist I agree. Why? Because you have to honour yourself before others. Resentment is a great teacher of self esteem and worth. Learn to know that they will never get the chance to do that to you again.
2026-06-10 21:34:21
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PhoenixStalfos :
"I demolish my bridges behind me, then there is no choice but forward" - Fridtjof Nansen
2026-06-11 18:44:09
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Majo🦀 :
forgiveness has been more detrimental to my mental health than holding grudges
2026-06-11 04:24:44
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-ˋˏ julia ˎˊ- :
❌ Forgive and forget
✅ Remember and rage 🐘
2026-08-07 16:41:09
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annavmoran :
Learn from the best
2026-06-13 07:43:46
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sar :
as a grudge holder i agree
2026-06-10 21:01:43
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Cal :
Subway takes disagrees w a woman who would’ve thought
2026-06-14 13:23:55
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Ivan Horvat 🇪🇺🇭🇷 :
She is way too smart for him to keep up, which is why he just repeats the same reference twice in a row.
2026-08-08 08:04:05
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lizardperson :
Two words: Kendrick Lamar
2026-06-11 09:44:56
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Reloy :
Is she holding a book that she wrote and got published? That's a power move.
2026-06-10 15:21:44
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anna charity :
can i hire her as my therapist
2026-07-20 15:23:20
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user4402779439495 :
Scorpio approved.
2026-06-10 16:29:46
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Seancasm :
This is the Taurus way
2026-06-10 21:17:21
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BadBrains909 :
The Count of Monte Cristo resonates with me on a spiritual level.
2026-06-10 20:32:45
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