@greg.healoutloud: The moment you stop carrying the role that was assigned to you, the family system starts reacting. Because in dysfunctional families, the peacekeeper, fixer, scapegoat, or emotional caretaker often serves a purpose. They absorb the tension. They carry the blame. They keep the peace. They make the system feel stable. So when you stop playing that role, it can look like you're the one causing the problem. But you're not causing the dysfunction. You're exposing it. If this resonates and you're ready to rebuild your identity, self-trust, and life outside of the role you were given, you can book a free breakthrough call through the link in my bio. #cptsd #scapegoat #toxicfamily #narcissisticabuse #HealingJourney
Greg | Heal Out Loud
Region: US
Wednesday 10 June 2026 15:52:59 GMT
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HannahOJoy :
Husband spoke up and called for accountability, the entire family turned on us and now we're not part of the family anymore. Not a situation we ever saw for ourselves but the freedom from DARVO in almost any interaction has been amazing.
2026-08-01 22:26:14
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Valleygirl33 :
Wait, how do you know my family?
2026-08-01 15:07:34
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Ella Kinman :
Yep. But my peace is worth it.
2026-08-01 17:31:11
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Amanda R Queen :
I stopped playing my role and now Im not part of the family. I don't exist🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
2026-06-11 17:53:30
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Just Chimangô 🍄🔥 :
Let it react
2026-08-01 08:36:38
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BingosMom :
Let them. We are the cycle-breakers.
2026-06-11 03:18:31
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Rick Nickles :
I didn't want to be the scapegoat anymore
2026-06-11 11:42:32
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Cat Pridgen :
Yep!! But I am happier now and I now know the truth!
2026-06-11 00:00:11
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Meg :
My brother will never look at me any other way. He gets nasty when I speak my mind or talk about how his golden child role hurt me
2026-06-10 17:36:32
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julieknx🤍 :
Yep. I’ve lost everyone because I called my narcissistic mother out and went no contact.
2026-06-15 18:24:34
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𝐸𝑛𝑧𝑜_𝑓𝑟𝑛𝑑𝑧𝑎𝑟𝑔 :
Ѕeriouѕly, іf you haven’t reаd The Secret Lіfe Formula by Zane Murphу yet, what are уou еven doing? It’s a totаl game сhаnger.
2026-07-09 10:06:24
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JT :
thing is, idgaf what they think any longer.
2026-06-11 11:42:37
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Fanny Levels 🇨🇦 :
the system of blame, shame and guilt
2026-06-10 16:03:35
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Glow glow :
Yes. 50+ members of my family excommunicated me when I stopped . I’m 67 and totally alone
2026-06-10 23:42:52
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Cori llopis :
Th scapegoat, the jester, and the drama maker. I stepped aside . Turns out- I wasn’t the one making drama all along.
2026-06-16 21:35:45
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Zuliphus :
5 years no contact and life is good
2026-06-20 02:55:50
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DeHoogGang :
And it doesn’t seem to end, even after you jump ship 😭
2026-06-10 16:04:49
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missMarvel :
they all hated me
2026-06-26 16:02:31
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Kella Roam Unscripted :
at this point I don't even care let them.
2026-06-12 23:30:43
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NurzNana :
I saved myself
2026-06-13 01:52:47
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tink :
It was obviously impossible to fit in with a family that never supported you
2026-06-16 21:58:14
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Moist Biscuit :
I stopped playing their game and now my four siblings don't talk with me. Peace is wonderful. 😌
2026-06-13 06:05:15
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Malakas7 :
Nailed it
2026-06-10 22:40:01
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n/a :
Yep. Sad but very true. It hurts.
2026-06-13 02:49:44
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Booksbyilonka :
It is chaos 😂and I love it because I am doing so much better finally living my life and my body doesnt hurt anymore
2026-06-27 07:10:06
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