@howtoconvince: “I guess I’m just a terrible person then” isn’t accountability. It’s a detour. Don’t get pulled into comforting them when the conversation is supposed to be about their behavior 🤝 #communicationtips #narcissist #emotionalintelligence #boundariesmatter
I usually reply “yeah, you are a terrible person”. 😳
2026-06-10 23:49:40
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𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐱 애리 :
I HATE NARCISSISTS ALL NARCISSISTS IDC WHAT THEYVE BEEN THROUGH
2026-06-14 04:43:36
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Batman🦇 :
“I guess I’m just a terrible person” thank you my guy I’ve been trying to tell you that for years
2026-06-13 12:58:13
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j :
narcissist: "I guess im just a terrible person then."
reply: "Yeah, you are."
2026-06-15 16:57:24
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kristymiller :
or you could say "Im so glad you finally see it."
2026-06-11 11:57:31
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its.meletty :
My response, “I guess you are”
2026-06-15 19:28:52
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Valencia Everett :
I usually ask "did that sentence come out of my mouth or yours?"
2026-06-13 11:47:20
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mf_ej2 :
Omg how did you know my mother
2026-06-14 17:46:08
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Sabra Swinehart :
Or "I guess I can't do anything right"
2026-06-29 01:27:02
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Isaac :
My apologies usually go “yeah I fucked that one up, sorry.”
2026-06-14 17:25:48
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GDA :
A true narcissist won't hear that. they'll deflect and turn it around anyway. This is the only thing that would work:
2026-06-13 16:47:42
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sirlaws :
does this work with moms
2026-06-14 05:50:21
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stuffybird :
My response is to agree. “I guess I’m just a terrible person” my response: “Yeah. You are.” I never have any patience for narcissists and don’t want them in my life, therefore I have no reason to be nice to them.
2026-06-11 23:28:11
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koolaid841 :
I started saying " I agree"
2026-06-10 18:15:57
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🌙✨ :
I got the “I guess I’m just a POS then” “ I responded “yea! Now you’re getting the point” and walked away
2026-07-10 08:36:07
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Floyd (ˊ꒳ˋ) :
So my sisters a narcissist.. got it i'll remember that
2026-06-15 08:24:57
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Emmy Jean :
I usually say "Well you're the one who said it."
2026-06-13 20:33:08
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Al M. :
100% They don't care either way
2026-06-11 21:18:21
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Shelby :
Narcs don’t give a shit and will probably spiral anyway. Best not to engage
2026-06-13 04:16:38
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rivalmethis :
One time my mom used this in an argument, and I responded very calmly. Yes you are. Mind you when she said that statement she was crying her eyes out, but as soon as I agreed with her, she stopped crying and there was This look of shock on her face.
2026-06-13 17:31:20
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Sharise :
Disgusting, my mom does this to me it's childish and immature
2026-06-11 06:06:10
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GwennyGirl_ 💖🕸️ :
Silent repost
2026-07-03 08:41:52
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Melissa Cyrus :
Yep!!!!
2026-07-16 16:04:10
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Ms.Mac :
Yes!!
2026-07-23 13:48:01
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Echo TheGecko :
just leave these ppl
2026-08-04 17:44:53
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