my mom is constantly going “Your cheeks are showing. that's not necessarily a problem I just want to make sure it's intentional”
2026-06-13 03:00:20
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LisaLou :
Best advice I ever heard: tell her you love her outfit, but then explain that she might get different types of attention while wearing it and then ask her how she would respond. Gets her thinking about her safety and her choices without any shame.
2026-06-12 15:35:07
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Guppy :
same. I also don't make her shave her legs and she has decided she never wants to. A literal teacher came up to her and said "Wow those are some hairy legs" My daughter responded with "I like em that way. let's me know which way the winds blowing" 😂
2026-06-11 16:46:47
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GiggleandYap :
my grandma used to say “ you won’t look like that forever. Wear the cute stuff!” You always have a better time when you feel cute.
2026-06-11 23:15:56
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Jessa Coline :
Body positivity is all well and good, but teaching boundaries and safety is just as important.
2026-06-11 23:25:47
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crazycats3000 :
I have struggled with this for years! YES OH MY GOD THOSE SHORTS ARE SHORT! But also…..your body is beautiful, and you can make your own choices!
2026-06-10 22:59:11
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lulu🪲 :
my mom says “ur butts showing” and when i say “i know” she says “pop off” 😭😭 like who taught u that
2026-07-01 10:01:18
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Lopes 01 :
Same!!! However, hearing my 14 yo tell me she LOVES how she looks in her bathing suit this year made my heart literally melt! My number one rule with her to my family and friends was they are to NEVER comment on her body. You can comment all day on her outfit but dont ever mention her body. It has paid off bc this girl exudes confidence and for the most part, absolutely loves her body! ❤️
2026-06-11 13:58:57
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Sha O'Neal :
The hill I was ready to die on with my husband. We weren’t policing her attire. He hated it. She’s an amazing young woman with confidence.
2026-06-11 15:53:13
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emily :
my mom has always told me she’s embarassed when i wear shorts bc of my cellulite—that is something that will never ever leave me, and hence i hate my legs now.
2026-06-19 13:43:30
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Julesss :
Perfection! Me every day as my girls leave the house. They look gorgeous while also giving my husband heart problems.
2026-06-11 15:48:02
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Mickaela🇨🇦 :
That was mommm 😫😂”those shorts are kinda short??” And I would be like “should I change?” And she’d say “no, you look good, they’re just short” 😭😭
2026-06-22 16:29:06
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Rabiaa :
I grew up in a super strict household and I was never allowed to wear tank tops or shorts. I have a 12 year old daughter now and it makes me sooooo happy to see her dress how she wants in a way that makes her happy and confident. It heals my heart a little.
2026-06-23 21:27:08
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tacobellsparkles :
im 19 my dad told me to change my shorts cuz they were too revealing i proceeded to put on worse ones and walk out the door
2026-07-14 03:25:02
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🤍✨️🧸✨️ :
my bonus mom always told me "dont go showing everyone what you got. Make them wonder what you have." if that makes sense it always made sense to me
2026-07-13 23:16:56
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KatieAnnTay :
As a mama to a 24yr old gal who attends all the concerts and festivals, goes clubbing when possible and is absolutely gorgeous…. This is me. I just let her go and be hott. She knows how to handle herself.
2026-06-11 22:30:53
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bella.burgenn :
tell my mother daily “i’m young and hot, i won’t look this good forever, or have this body forever”
2026-06-23 23:42:44
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💙Storytime w/ HeatherRenee💙 :
I've just given up and just say " you look great, I'm not coming to pick you up if the school calls, pack a back up "
2026-06-11 15:42:44
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bumble_bunny138 :
My parents always saw “flaunt it while you still got it” 🤣🙏 love them
2026-06-28 00:32:42
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Rachel :
Unless I think the school is going to call she good. 😌 👍
2026-06-11 01:33:44
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Stacey :
It's such a difficult balancing act. I've come down on the side of "you're only young once. Flaunt it while you've got it."
2026-06-11 18:50:30
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Courtney :
Same but both my daughters are 32 DDD and the way some parents judge is exhausting
2026-06-11 14:03:16
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❀⋆Sydnie・°❀ :
To help the moms out there. My rule my mom gave me. If I have a short shirt/ deep cut shirt. I need to have my but covered. If I have my but out. My shirt better be appropriate. You can have ONE but not BOTH. I’m 18 now so she doesn’t care anymore. But that was my rule as a teen. It def helped me!!!
2026-06-13 15:17:22
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