@littlemissmonroe: Does anyone else struggle with this? I naturally want to align all of the facts and logic of a situation before I talk about emotions. And sometimes I think it makes me come across as cold but my brain just struggles to talk about anything if it’s not rooted in truth and based on facts 😭 #autism #girlswithautism #tismtok #neurospicy
I don’t need something to be done my way. I need it to be done the right way.
2026-06-11 01:26:02
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Exactly_Jacly :
YES! If I’m wrong I want to know that! Correct the record!
2026-06-10 20:57:12
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Theoneandonly :
This grinds my gears so bad. I struggle with emotional accountability as well. Why are you mad at the truth is exactly how I feel
2026-07-07 21:18:25
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KATIE :
Most people need connection not facts. Hearing that really shifted my prospective. (Although I can disagree, but ultimately I get the point.) Very rarely is the point of an interaction to get all the facts straight.
2026-06-11 02:40:56
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fungus maximus :
something a therapist asked me years ago that i remind myself to this day: “whats more important? being right, or being effective?”
2026-06-11 05:40:10
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PalesaM323 :
this is why I keep getting told I lack tact. I still struggle with this
2026-06-10 19:59:48
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Chrystal Fortune :
True. It’s tiring trying to bridge the gap.
2026-06-10 21:38:25
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mirazavala :
obsessed with all your autism content but would also love a make up tutorial as your makeup is always flawless 🥰
2026-06-11 07:06:25
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K♡ :
and when I feel like I did something wrong or made a mistake I am 10x harder on myself then anyone else could ever be 😅 I refer to myself as very blunt 😬
2026-06-11 12:19:44
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Ashlyn criminal Justice ⚖️ :
I don’t need to be right I need things to be correct
2026-07-07 20:24:00
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vorticality :
Yesss I’ve struggled with this
2026-06-10 19:00:25
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SophieMay :
You just put into words how I work explained it perfectly Ty 🤌🥰
2026-06-11 16:07:22
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メ𝟶 :
people act like i'm making excuses or trying to shift blame when all i'm trying to do is point out what went wrong so it doesn't happen again 😭
2026-06-14 19:46:15
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bimbosinc :
You make me feel seen, thank you for your content
2026-06-22 21:19:02
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Kim 🇨🇦 :
emotional accountability makes sense logically too. when we do something that upsets someone, even tho unintended, we should apologize for upsetting them. just as we would want them to apologize to us even if they hurt us by accident. I sometimes ask people how they would have preferred I broached the subject or told them the truth - this is done after emotions have calmed down so that this question doesn't seem passive aggressive
2026-06-12 21:03:40
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That Chung Lee Style🫧 :
This is perfect! 👌🏽 🙌🏽 yes “why are you mad at a fact.” Exactly
2026-06-12 03:50:05
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yummycandyyy_ :
this… makes so much sense. you just helped me understand so many different instances, thank you.
2026-06-10 20:06:08
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Shelby :
Your videos are so important to me
2026-06-11 11:21:24
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Jayanti Noömi :
YES! Incredibly well said 🙌🏾
2026-06-10 19:45:49
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omardepomar :
Yes and no, im autistic I definitely have gaslit at times to protect my ego or lied to people out of kindness, I have prioritised many things over facts for a plethora of reasons
2026-06-16 09:47:46
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Oddriginals :
This is really helpful. I just can’t help but wonder why we are responsible for their feelings? I can’t always anticipate what fact will hurt someone
2026-07-01 13:24:25
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XronanempireX :
I actually get angry if someone doesnt tell me soemthing I did was wrong or upset them. I'm quick to apologize but you gotta TELL ME
2026-06-15 20:49:32
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alexandra.crochet24 :
You said that very well: that’s why I don’t always make an effort to talk to people because I might accidentally make it weird or hurt someone’s feelings
2026-07-01 00:00:36
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Paradise Not Included :
Girlfriend you have a PHD in this topic and I’m loving it! Your videos are helping me understand why socializing drains the life out of me sometimes.
2026-07-04 10:36:34
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rainingtrees system🌈🌲 :
THIS!!!! Upsides and downsides!!! I wouldnt ever change my autistic brain tho❤️
2026-06-12 20:46:02
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