@chris_hatfield: Anxious Attachment: Stop Chasing Reassurance #anxiousattachment #overthinking #insecure #reassurance #anxietyproblems

Goddess :

I told him about my trauma today, I didn’t need any reassurance after that. We’ve sent a few messages, but I’ve chosen to take some time for myself, he decided to take some for friends and himself, and I feel really good about my decision and I feel warm in myself right now. We’ll be spending more time later today, but I’m happy with me realizing I’m enough too

just_cheesecakie :

Oh you beautiful man with your beautiful world you help me

joelfo :

I need to be freed from this. Jesus help me

Sweyn85 :

am i worried about being hurt? yes. am I more worried about devoting too much time to the wrong person, again. also yes. I saw the signs before and ignored them, and now i constantly question my judgment. am I noticing something or projecting something

eestun :

I’ve really been needing to hear this, i love every bit of her, i can’t help but overthink and get a little jealous sometimes. But the more i learn the more i realize my “problems” are simply in my head!🤗 they aren’t real!! I can do this

SeaLion :

Yes and it is exhausting for your partner if you keep needing reassurance over little things. They have to carry some of your emotional weight you cant hold yourself

Helmetlover :

Okay yeah this is definitely me, ya learn something new every day huh

Kaylyn Easton :

How can I contact you to come on an upcoming podcast? Currently pre producing episodes. Would love to have you as a guest.

Chana Banana :

But... How?

Buck Hutchinson :

Christ alive, man. back to back seeing your videos and you put it so simply it actually makes sense. Unbiased too. Thanks.

x3nop1xelttv :

Yo ik we don’t know each other but this has really helped thank you so much

robo :

How is this dude calling out my brain 24/7

Laewrens_ on Ig :

Damn I always wanted reassurance because even if she's not doing anything my mind kept on making fake scenarios, but right now I stopped it and just reading self help books

dana_wisemind :

When you learn to self soothe, your self efficacy increases because you’re no longer depending on something external to feel okay.

MK2028 :

Needed this today

brookehaley12 :

Definitely needed this. Thank you

Raúl :

I'm not sure if you have made a video regarding message read ticks being turned off on WhatsApp. That tends to spiral out of my control when I don't know if she has read my message or not. Thank you!

michaelruggiero39 :

Spot on!!!

Teags :

Jaxon (Imogen’s edition) :

@Immyyy i depend on you to much and i need help to stop it