if you did something to cause that disrespect your at fault but you didn't do it to me so your still my friend ill tell them to chill out but im not gonna fully stop them if you did something
2026-08-05 13:22:39
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Og_jelly :
“This is selfish “ no it ain’t
2026-06-11 19:53:47
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toinako :
When I had to awkwardly stand a good distance from the group at a car meet while my bsf of five years spoke to my ex (who also was someone I spent all of hs being bsfs with) who hates me with a burning passion and dumped me last year because I didn’t know how to say I was a little hurt he asked another girl to hang out right in front of my face after we hadn’t hung out in a month.
2026-08-05 04:57:44
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Tezca-chopi :
I have no enemies
2026-06-11 04:14:59
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Justin P :
I used to agree with this. But I think theres some nuance in that kind of situation that makes it not as simple as it sounds.
2026-06-11 20:24:16
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kookycookie :
i think ppl are looking past the fact he said DISRESPECTING and openly DISLIKING you. so it’s not simply “we don’t like eachother as people, or dislike what they do, we don’t click so we’re not friends”, but it’s someone who goes out of their way to talk negatively about you and maybe even more than words. it does still depend on the situation but overall this is not smth immature at all. it’s about loyalty to your friend and respecting and being kind
2026-06-12 07:01:09
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Jen :
I am on NO sides atp .. when I used to pick sides they end up becoming friends again and I’m left awkwardly behind with the beef 😭🥀
2026-06-16 09:50:27
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🥔 :
He’s friends with someone who dislikes me and I’m friends with someone who doesn’t like him but we still good friends we’ve been friends for years
2026-06-10 23:21:55
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alayna :
personally I’m picking the one w more money
2026-06-12 00:27:29
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Kamkam :
Loyalty is such a lost art
2026-06-11 19:52:02
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Ray-Ray :
"This is selfish" this is SELF-RESPECT
2026-07-04 10:14:48
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Haku :
that's why you drop those friends, there are better people to be friends with
2026-06-19 20:05:32
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my lost account :
Man, fuck maybe I was a bad friend.
2026-06-18 21:25:16
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yoshi_sauce :
It ain’t my fault yall don’t like each other 😭
2026-06-12 00:59:51
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phatboiiwhocandance :
I’m not liking the comments, seems like loyalty ain’t a thing anymore
2026-06-11 19:11:04
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🕷️ :
I choose the friend that doesn't make me pick friends.
2026-06-11 22:53:30
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_jl.tsk07 :
everyone in the comments disagreeing with this video and calling it immature to think like that are so wrong. it’s not selfish or stupid. im not going to surround myself with people who are against me. A FRIEND TO ALL IS A FRIEND TO NONE.
ive grown so much in the way i understand love and friendship. ive had my fair share of being immature. ive been a bad friend before. ive made mistakes. but through all of that, ive learnt that real friendship is not built on convenience, it’s built on loyalty, respect, and love.
i know i have flaws, but one thing i will never do is surround myself with people who don’t truly care for me. people call it selfish, but i think it’s self-respect.
addressing the “selfishness”… it’s never selfish to want your relationships to reflect your values. i will never be friends with someone who openly dislikes the people i love and choose to keep close. because that doesn’t just disrespect my friend, it disrespects me. it disrespects the people i stand beside. it disrespects everything i believe friendship should be.
in highschool, i had a friend who was friends with everyone. i never had an issue with it until i realised something. i would never have done the same to them. they knew i was disliked by a certain group of people, yet they still chose to be fond of them. that was the moment i understood that not everyone values friendship the same way. i was done. done with the friendship. done with them.
people are not stepping stones. u cannot use a person for growth and call it friendship. u cannot keep people around only when they benefit u. friendship without love is just proximity.
a friendship is a relationship. maybe not romantic, but it is intimate. it is trust. it is loyalty. it is choosing someone, over and over again, even when they’re not in the room.
2026-06-12 14:30:10
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☻Juan☻ :
js bc u have beef with someone doesnt mean ur friend has to be in the middle of it, my friend can be friends with the person i hate the most idgaf
2026-06-12 06:11:59
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