@hellodoctorkai: Just type the word "workshop" if you want to come! You'll start to heal and rewire these deeply rooted patterns so you can accept and receive the love you truly deserve. We hope to see you soon! You keep losing yourself in relationships because your nervous system learned that to keep love, you have to put the other person's needs above your own, every single time. You know everything about what they need: their goals, their struggles, their healing, their dreams. And somewhere in the giving, your own life quietly fades into the background. Your friends see you less, your hobbies disappear, your needs go last, if they get attended to at all. You become an expert on them and a stranger to yourself. If growing up you learned that your needs didn't matter, this will land. Maybe you were the one whose feelings came last, whose job was to attend to everyone else's. Maybe having needs felt selfish, or dangerous, or like a fast way to be too much. So now, in love, you disappear, you pour yourself into them and forget you exist. But here's the trap: when you abandon yourself to keep a relationship, the person they fell in love with slowly stops being there. You can't be chosen if there's no you left to choose. And you end up lonely inside a relationship, because you gave away the very self that was supposed to be in it. You were never meant to disappear to be loved, a relationship is supposed to have you in it, fully. And taking care of your own needs isn't selfish, it's the thing that keeps you alive enough to actually be loved. The right person wants the whole you, not a version of you that's been emptied out in service of them. Let's become the first emotionally mature generation in our families. #innerchildhealing #emotionaldna #anxietyrelief #healingtiktok #HealingJourney

Dr. Kai, Inner Child Healing

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Thursday 11 June 2026 01:13:25 GMT