@jeffrebehm: There’s a difference between friend energy and romantic energy. #Love #school #dating #research #relationships

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acee2113
ace :
Yeah how do you know it’s only you thinking or if they are too
2026-08-01 16:51:45
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heretothereafter
KT :
....who stops thinking about their friends until the next time they see them???
2026-06-11 12:09:27
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jcbermu
jcbermu :
I think this is completely wrong
2026-06-11 21:08:50
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kskeeter
Kskeeter :
I get what he’s saying. It’s not that you don’t think of your friends at all, it’s about being ok with the distance and you know the connection is there and solid bc you’re friends. Whereas if you have romantic feelings you keep thinking about wanting them with you more so you can establish more of that relationship. There’s a clear difference. I don’t have the same inclinations towards my best friend as I would a guy I was interested in.
2026-06-12 05:02:22
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danielanix
Daniel Anix :
...Am I dating all of my friends?
2026-06-13 07:16:23
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chelsearaehomes
ChelseaRaeHomes :
I actually think this a great analysis. It’s not that we’re not thinking of our friends, it’s that we’re not left considering what it may have meant or if there is safety in the connection. We have security in the experience so we can relax after it’s over. In a romantic connection, you’re considering what may progress after the next encounter. Thank you for this wording, I think you nailed it.
2026-06-13 05:07:06
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thecrassennui2
TheCrassEnnui :
That's not romantic energy, that's just my anxiety forcing me to replay every interaction over again until I talk to them again.
2026-06-11 12:56:02
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l1vlamb
Liam :
sorry you haven't experienced close friendship... I see things that remind me of my friends or I wonder how they are all the time
2026-06-11 22:20:13
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_cho_
_cho_ :
I think, dream, speak and miss my friends constantly. I love them platonically. why are you all so casual about FRIENDS
2026-06-11 19:31:33
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heretical.ink
AJJG :
completely disagree. I hate the kind of lackluster, casual friendshipa that most people have where they don't think about their friends when they are not around. my friends are like family to me and I always think of more to say or more I wanna do with them, but I don't wanna kiss my friends, big difference. I'm so ick of friendship being treated as secondary or lesser to romance
2026-06-11 13:39:04
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xxwwq0
xxwwq0 :
You mean…. I’m romantically involved with my work?😭
2026-06-11 19:37:11
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0h.scar
O.S.C.A.R :
Comments gave me sanity— because no way I’m in love with my friends 😂
2026-06-15 22:50:03
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themalagarefugee
Marsala :
I think about my friends and how interesting the conversation was and how happy they made me feel 🙄 but I’m definitely not in love with them
2026-06-11 20:21:51
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jul._.jul19
Jay Young🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦 :
So I’m in love with all my friends…
2026-06-12 18:37:52
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ax8ore
Angela :
Great. I have romantic feelings for everyone I interact with.
2026-06-14 17:12:16
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alycia_109
Alycia :
You don’t… THINK about your friends when you’re not with them?! I think about my friends ALL THE TIME! 😳 As a woman, my friendships are my LIFE. I think about them, wonder if they figured out that issue, hope for them to do well, send them good luck texts on big days, wonder what they’re up to, plan to go to cute coffee shops, etc. And they do the same for me 🤷🏻‍♀️
2026-06-15 12:11:45
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rheanamm
rea :
Who are you to define this…?
2026-06-12 15:00:53
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drteapodiatry
drteapodiatry 👣 :
Guess all my friends are romantic
2026-06-12 02:04:06
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crinkly_renee
Renee :
You don’t think about your friends when you’re not with them?
2026-06-12 03:13:57
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emm.gotoh55
Emm A :
That's not romantic energy that's anxious attachment
2026-06-12 04:52:57
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trekkieerin
Trekkieerin :
Jokes on you.. I have anxiety. I'm *always* thinking about every interaction *all* the time
2026-06-11 15:45:27
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acee2113
ace :
Does the other person feel it too ? Or is it just you?
2026-06-12 18:02:11
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crowmars
butteredneenus :
idk this can be one sided. if I have a crush I'll be thinking about them even if they arent giving me "romantic energy"
2026-06-11 17:17:31
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