dougweaverart
Region: US
Thursday 11 June 2026 14:20:11 GMT
96801
10576
599
342
Music
Download
Comments
Tamara :
Because intimacy is a byproduct of desire. It should never fall in the same category as a chore.
2026-06-11 17:09:27
2799
Elena Bjørn | Hobby Magpie :
Maintaining a home is something anyone with a home has to do. He would have to do household chores whether he was married or not. he would still have to do a job. And taking things to the tip (the landfill/junkyard/recycling centre) is not FOR one partner, it’s for the household. Intimacy isn’t a necessary function of maintaining a home. It isn’t necessary full stop. And therefore should never be an obligation.
2026-07-09 17:58:52
166
Carla J :
That sounds like a very sad relationship
2026-07-11 00:23:21
0
eitaKate :
…and they shouldn’t want you to. Your partner is a human being whose desire and enjoyment should matter very much to you. And if they don’t, you don’t love them, you love having them. And that is a very different thing.
2026-06-11 16:21:08
802
Neverceasinglove :
The fact that people do not understand the difference is so hard to comprehend
2026-06-12 12:35:03
363
mrsdarcy84 :
Oh my god, that’s just sad😢
2026-07-10 23:40:01
0
Violetta Mezzanotte :
HUGE difference between a chore and your BODILY AUTONOMY
2026-06-12 17:13:55
109
Iris :
house chores are not something your partner does for you specifically, it is a contribution to the joint tasks of the household that benefit you both
2026-06-11 20:18:26
668
gracendignity :
Wow. How can anybody compare those two things? Mind blowing.
2026-06-11 21:21:34
372
Tyra Taylor-Foulk :
It's also your body. My husband doesn't like being tickled much, but just imagine me telling him I made dinner so I can tickle him when I want.
2026-06-12 22:14:18
278
Lydia :
sometimes we don't recognize things are harming us while they are harming us
2026-06-11 21:42:55
271
Marina :
What the f? that's the most depressing thing i've ever heard.
2026-06-12 08:22:56
183
Stella :
My body isn't ever negotiable. If I don't want to, betraying myself is way different than a chore I don't want to do.
2026-06-12 02:01:44
228
T :
intimacy shouldn't be a chore
2026-06-12 09:55:09
56
Scout :
Idk if I agree with this take. I think the big thing here is the word "obligation" I don't feel "obligated" but I WANT to do something nice for my partner who I love, loves me, and equally takes part in the household. I might not feel "in the mood" but I still want to do something for him. That's not "selling my body." I think you got too hooked on the specific examples commenter used and missed the general meaning.
2026-06-12 16:18:13
5
𝑩❦ :
That fact you even have to explain this is wild!
2026-06-12 02:16:16
27
Simone Sonder :
Because people think they're transactions. Relationships should not be transactional.
2026-06-11 18:14:17
135
ur cats erotic dream :
For everyone in the comments saying “oh wow how can you not just KNOW the difference” it’s nice that you do but it’s extremely important that we as a society constantly try to understand why we feel certain ways about things
2026-06-17 22:16:31
10
pan6 foot9 :
I can’t believe this needs to be explained, but I couldn’t have explained this half as well as you just did
2026-06-12 04:13:13
74
ET🔌 :
Are we all okay? Because…
2026-06-11 23:27:04
110
ArcticAur :
I think they’re more describing like a situation where like “I’m not super in the mood for sex, but because it’s important to my partner and I value doing things to make them happy (though I don’t feel coerced or manipulated or anything), I’m going to do this anyway, in part on the theory that sometimes they do things they don’t particularly want to do and that they aren’t obligated to do but because they like making me happy, and I’d like to go out of my way for them.” And like I see that sort of reasoning as part of the give and take of any healthy relationship.
2026-06-11 21:50:36
15
jlaw :
Goodness. I don’t want anything to do with obligatory intimacy. If we don’t mutually desire it at a baseline and in the moment - pass!
2026-06-12 12:44:29
41
Shells 🌈 :
I think the key is understanding the difference between intimacy and a transactional/physical only connection. intimacy can have many forms, however once you start seeing it as an obligation or a chore, the intimacy is gone.
2026-06-11 19:20:51
201
Uncle Granny🇨🇦 :
intimacy should not be part of bargaining because it is not a chore or a duty or a physical need. It is a sacred act between two bonded humans to help.strengthen that bond. Not a commodity.
2026-06-11 21:24:09
57
Sol Cinetto :
A tip run (mostly used in Australian, British, and New Zealand English) refers to the act of driving a vehicle loaded with household rubbish, garden waste, or unwanted items to a local waste disposal facility (the "tip").
2026-06-12 15:26:10
24
To see more videos from user @dougweaverart, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
