Kier Gaines
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Thursday 11 June 2026 14:27:50 GMT
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hexitech0 :
Great video as always but does everyone else see the multiple comments about Latasha?!?!
2026-06-11 21:41:15
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WealthWithAlisha :
Looove how you broke that down!🔥
2026-06-11 23:26:26
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Dr. Jae | PhD :
This was beautifully articulated, Kier!
2026-06-12 15:33:29
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elle💕 :
this is why you’re a fav! I always say I love my “boring” life. it isn’t boring…I’m content🧘🏽♀️✨
2026-06-11 18:03:49
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Jaqen H'ghar :
familiarity people go where the space is familiar. if youre used to chaos, peace feels uncomfortable. if youre used to peace, you have little tolerance for chaos. Both can hold a foundation from trauma. the response is different.
2026-06-12 11:36:47
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Dazed101 :
I totally agree
2026-06-11 16:30:34
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Antony Robinson (Tone) :
this is good
2026-06-11 15:47:45
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Quawee Whitening :
Thank you for this one👏🏽
2026-06-11 19:43:36
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Nakai Harrison | MI Realtor :
Correct Kier! It’s used as an excuse instead of ammo to grow! People are stopping at the explanation and not using it as material to overcome it!
2026-06-12 12:37:42
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shkelaking :
I was just talking about the “vibe/spark” factor with someone today.
2026-06-11 22:36:41
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Key | introverted bestie 🌱 :
This was an amazingly, thorough video! Made me think about things. I am on a similar thought process as this. As a grad student studying marriage and family therapy, this was a good thought nugget. 😊
2026-06-12 17:05:39
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Autumn Leaves :
Omg yeeesssssss
2026-06-12 09:05:54
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andreasharris250 :
I needed to hear this
2026-06-12 20:54:27
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Nicole | Alignment Collective :
Agree— humanity is very complex!
2026-06-12 02:08:11
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MrKristopha 🍉 :
I love your videos. You've helped me many times.
2026-06-11 19:23:45
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Phil Shaw :
Thanks for breaking that down...
2026-06-11 21:02:53
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Tresespieces :
Very thoughtful! I love this perspective.
2026-06-11 18:23:03
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Connecticuts Own :
I'm lovin the podcast bro 👏👏👏
2026-06-11 21:11:58
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Kenneth Paszek :
Love this quote! - “Healthy love is not repeating the same spark forever, it’s learning ways to deliver that love as your relationship continues to evolve”
2026-06-12 02:34:08
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Ⓜ️yles :
Dawg you just said a word !!!!!
2026-06-12 19:59:30
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Tonja Johnson TJ :
True. But my husband is addicted to chaos. I can't wait to get away from him.
2026-06-12 21:38:43
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Bro. Stokes :
Brother continue to teach these much needed lessons. You are appreciated. ✊🏿🖤💯
2026-06-12 10:36:19
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Tammy | Self Love Coach 💕✅ :
Thank you for addressing this.. too many google made therapists online who don’t understand the connection between the complexities
2026-06-12 12:16:07
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Your Favorite Diplomat :
When my therapist explained the clinical use of trigger I was like oh we are so wrong
2026-06-12 17:08:14
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shashape :
another take people who look at people that a ready to leave relationships as unhealthy are actually apart of the problem that helps to add to trauma itself. When you focus more on a person staying or leaving rather than how people are willing to treat their partner by taking accountability, evolve & change for the sake of the relationship. If 1 person is unwilling to do that then the other person has no choice but to leave, Demanding 1 to stay or leave irregardless of how you are being treated gives a sense of feeling trapped between the negative outcomes & this is where trauma comes in, domestic violence & abuse etc...
2026-06-12 04:07:17
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