Mario :
I dated a couple of women who struggled with this, and it was extremely difficult at times. I cared about them deeply and tried my best to help. I encouraged therapy, bought books, supported their recovery, and encouraged them to stay sober on multiple occasions.
Unfortunately, there was also a lot of lying, manipulation, gaslighting, and behavior that took a serious toll on my mental health. Despite that, I still care about them and hope they’re doing well.
BPD is a terrible thing to struggle with. They didn’t choose to have it, and real change takes a lot of self-awareness, accountability, and hard work. I hope they’re getting the help they need because underneath all the chaos, there were also a lot of great qualities about them.
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