@anci.social: Send this to your girls 🫶🏼 • Drop the ego 🥲 very different then self respect btw… And it’s blocking every lesson that could actually change your life. Be around people who are outperforming you in every aspect you will have a different drive and ambition • Don’t give your whole self to a relationship before you even know who that self is. You’re still becoming her. Build something that’s yours first💕 • Your feelings are so valid AND they’re not always the truth. One feeling can make sense given your history and still be lying to you about the present…Feel it, then fact-check it 🫣 • You don’t need more info… You need reps. Doing it messy and real will always beat preparing forever. That’s just the deal. • Please learn to manage your stress, genuinely. Not bubble baths …real regulation. Because unmanaged stress will make your decisions for you and it has terrible taste 😓 #adviceforwomen #advice #adviceforlife

tessachiguvare :

Also..date yourself,i cant stress this enough you don’t always need company to enjoy your life

Maya :

You actually just opened my eyes as a girl who just turned 18

yursyasmin :

Don’t drop the ego. Work and heal it. If you’re pretty, you are pretty. You can’t change that. But you can change how you act bcz you’re pretty. No one owns you anything bcz you’re pretty. Work hard and don’t hide yourself. You deserve to shine

Shanikah :

Having a bf in my early 20’s was my biggest flop tbh 😳😂

Kinda Christy :

Not me in my designer bags n flip flops running errands all over the place

K<3 :

Hey wow now, i like my flip flops and my real designer bags. I can’t bare to wear flats, wedges,heals in this heat😭a girl gotta be comfy

kanamenoname :

my biggest issue is not internalizing the world's criticism towards me. it's stopped me from chasing my goals, getting jobs/holding them and just taking risks

prneeett :

I felt better after watching this video ❤️

Lauren :

I’m actually better than everyone

danielle :

drop the ego!!!

Rei :

well u can drop ur ego but I can't cuz I am the prettiest and smartest

Eleanna Ferrer :

no, sorry because of ego I'm still alive 😂 feeding all my delusions

khadija :

love love the last point thank you

Softlife Mentor 💅 :

I changed how I ask once and everything just clicked

Kat_imaginative ✭ :

as someone who's not at their 20's yet, thank you for these advices!

blue :

me watching this,and I'm 16 btw

𝐊𝐡𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐞𝐬𝐢 ᥫᩣ :

Absolutely, right! 💖✨

Hshdhshsjsisksks :

Wait can we talk more on the first point about ego

sar :

really needed this big sister ❤️

Digital Marketer & Mentor :

ryeannemyrel :

Amen thanks ✨

Northpole✨ :

reposted three time lol

AdviceColumnist :

Great advice. Thank you!