@drdeborahparenting: When a child hits you in the face, the goal is not to stop the hitting with words. The goal is to make hitting ineffective. Most parents immediately begin explaining, correcting, negotiating, or asking for an apology. But in that moment, your child is not learning from your words. They’re learning from what happens next. The second your child hits, calmly block for safety and end access to the interaction. One sentence: “I will not stay with people who hit.” Then move away or remove the child from the activity, depending on the situation. No lecture. No debate. No emotional reaction. The consequence is not your anger. The consequence is the loss of access. Children repeat behaviors that work and abandon behaviors that don’t. Your authority is not in how much you say. Your authority is in what happens after you say it. #ParentSupport #PurposedParenting #ParentingTips #ParentCoach #ParentingOS #ParentingCommunity

Johanna :

Can you Plz talk faster 🤭

anthieipsou :

Is it the same with something wrong they said?

Misterlove :

VonnieG2021 :

None of my kids did this

Jen wren 5791 :

Ellie barker

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BNZOfficial :

“The consequence..”

Trudy Nielsen :

I work at a school for children with behaviour problems. We work with PBS. We do what you are saying, but we're not using the words as 'not' or 'don't', but we say: 'You have to keep your hands to yourself'. PBS= positive behaviour support.

Moésha Ramaekers Kin’s 🤍 :

for a 7 months too?

siraj vibe :

that's how Justin Bieber, Jaden Smith ,West etc were raised and see how they turned into

Ellen ✨ :

my kid did this once. i calmly explained. and she never ever did it again. all children is not the same. my child is an extreme empath, but flying from mom and dad week and going over 52h in kindergardeen on dads week. and none in my week, it a big difference. so i understand shes overwhelmed and did it without thinking. but one explanation and she never did it again

king_floath :

Except I won’t want mines to always walk away every times

polly590🇱🇨 :

I had to read the comments😂😂😂 i agree with comments

🍀☘️ WendyRoseArtist ☘️🍀 :

Whoa that will work on everyone of all ages people!

Elijah kale music :

Thank you for teaching us coach

Yoda :

OHHHH here we go again ....

Vely :

Hello, this is very helpful! Tysm

cupcake04 :

Wahre Worte 🥰. Hab immer zu emotional reagiert 🙈

Nicolette10193 :

Does the same apply to them biting I’m in the wild 18 month old stage 😭

MYT CR8TiV :

The other day my 6 yr old threw a toy at my face and kicked me. I got up and locked myself in my bedroom and gave him silent treatment. He kept asking my husband Moms not answering the door. He didn't like the silent treatment.

Sar 🛼 :

I ignored my son when he did this. Didn’t change my face, didn’t give him any satisfaction, just ignored him. He soon realised he didn’t get what he wanted, so he stopped.

Aale :

Ho una domanda. Se quando mio figlio mette in atto un comportamento sbagliato io me ne vado e interrompo l’interazione, non inizierebbe a comportarsi con la paura che io possa girare spalle e andare via? Non crea in lui una paura dell’abbandono?