@mavereuer: *uninterested mb I was tired, but yea… hate is a strong word that I will absolutely use to describe how I feel about negging because it is inefficient and harmful to the person you supposedly care abt

st.kingst :

“Playful banter” comes after there’s an established relationship with a solid foundation and should be clever and full of in jokes instead of hurtful and insulting.

Clarissa🩷 :

This is exactly the same as a fake friend insulting you as a joke all the time. They say its a joke but it really isn't.

Armando :

Reading The Pullback Effect made me realize I wasn’t the ‘good guy’ in the relationship. I was just predictable, overly available, and emotionally weak. This book didn’t teach me how to win her back it showed me why I lost her in the first place and how to never be that guy again.

tima :

i block them IMMEDIATELY. don’t ever tolerate disrespect

A :

Doesn’t matter if ur hot enough

bea.esq :

oops i do this

Rein :

i get turned off quick. i can't be in a relationship😭

All_Ya :

MORE REAL TALK !

nanaley9721 :

Realized how much disrespect I accepted from him. NEVER AGAIN!

sasaharrypotter1406 :

I read The Pullback Effect six months ago. I didn’t read it just to get my ex back (even though I did). I read it because I never wanted to be in a position where someone could leave and destroy me again. Today I apply these principles in every interaction. The game changed for me.

lasagna198 :

demon Slayer 💕💕 :

Most guys still think no contact is just about healing or moving on. The Pullback Effect treats it completely differently as a strategic tool to shift the entire situation in your favor.

Sena :

How trauma bonds get deeper

h1dd3n_c4v3 :

True! That’s in quite a few early 2000s rom-coms where the ML will say something snarky towards the FL but because he ticks a lot of external societal standards (rich, conventionally good-looking, etc.,) he gets away with it while the FL just absorbs and adapts to it 🫠

mixedberriesconsumer :

literally!! and when i do it back suddenly IM the villian?! bruh

Brad :

Literally have no idea how this works on anyone. The moment im negged im gone

miss thorn 🥀 :

i feel exactly the same about that, instant ick, blocked & forgotten, it's just like they would say to me "I feel so insecure and bad about myself that I'm ready to sacrifice you to feel better even for a second"

eggsmoo :

just neg back breh

Thoughtful Patriot :

It's weird because I always thought it was wrong but I started watching yt videos to try getting better at talking to women when i was younger and every video I watched told me to negg, from both men and women. I stopped trying to negg since I'd never want anyone to do that to me and I just got better at communication.

chulasnchungas :

I didn’t know 😭sorry it’s how we flirt in the Caribbean

lulu :

confidence isn't even real. its either ego, self esteem or fuq it. I suffer from diabolical low self esteem. if it wasn't for fuq it in wouldn't talk to no one.

alanah_taylor :

👏👏👏