I am genuinely happy that YOU chose to help you. Your husband is a wonderful man, but only we can chose to help ourselves. It is so very frustrating when those who should be helping, don't. I am happy that you talk to us, and share your pain. It helps in so many ways. Every part of you deserves to be here and continue to shine with all of your being. I know there will always be hard days, but watch this video when they rage. Remember how wonderful, loving, amazing, wanted, needed, loved you are. 🫂 xxx
2026-06-11 18:49:38
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meganpboxing :
Mel I love you. I can’t tell you how well timed this video has come up.
2026-06-11 21:11:04
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maz :
Thank god you didn't you're a ray of sunshine Mel 💛
2026-06-14 09:03:11
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🌻 Jess 🌻 :
So glad you’re still here ❤️
2026-06-11 19:10:30
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CJ x :
Jesus Murphy I’m sat sobbing at 11am… this video was meant to find me🥹
2026-06-12 09:47:57
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em.lou35 :
Oh my goodness this got me good 🥲🥲I’ve never been more proud of a stranger before, sad to say i can relate to the feelings but at the end of the day only you can help yourself and i’m so glad you’ve managed to find the strength through every day! This is so so so important to share and can only say thank you, everyone has a life worth to live 🤍it’s always a strange feeling to look back on the specific day but thinking how far you’ve made it from that day is the most important to take in, always focus on the good from now and push on through x
2026-06-11 19:13:38
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ells 🐈⬛🌙🌷 :
So glad you stayed. Sending you and your family so much love xx
2026-06-11 18:37:44
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Lyn :
Needed this today.
2026-06-12 08:27:40
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Amy <3 :
you are so worthy in this lifetime and all after 🤍we love you
2026-06-11 18:56:07
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dambrose10 :
Oh Mel, you and he are meant to be. This is heartbreaking and heartwarming all at the same time. Thank you for sharing, thank you for being here and thank you for opening your heart and your journey to so many others. We totally appreciate you and all that you are 🫶🫶🫶🫶
2026-06-11 18:23:45
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SORIN :
i’m so happy you’re still here today and got to flourish like you have🧡🧡you are so inspirational and we’re all super proud of you!!
2026-06-11 18:17:18
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MADDIE🌷🌈 :
Love you mel, i got emotional when you said that you walk past that bridge and get goosebumps you are a inspiration woman i am proud to say i am still healing watching you heal has helped heal me🫶🏻
2026-06-11 19:39:43
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em :
thank you for every word of this 💗
2026-06-12 16:04:35
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esamjcqxvhe :
Hi, just want to say that you’re not alone and your videos have helped me feel less alone myself.
2026-06-11 21:03:33
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Kim jeffries :
the world is a brighter place with you in it
2026-06-12 06:22:50
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Danni Lathouros :
So glad you stayed Mel x
2026-06-12 02:04:55
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Siobhan_ 93 baby :
The timing of this video 🥺 I needed to hear this. I'm glad you got the help you need
2026-06-12 09:33:22
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Jess Davidson :
Not all heroes wear capes….some choose to bravely share their personal struggles online in order to help others ❤️
2026-06-12 12:30:52
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when i was put to a crisis team as a child mind you similar sort of thing kinda to you they did nothing and literally called my mum and told her they weren't going to help me cos I wasn't able to fix myself like im sorry but thats the fucking reason I was referred to them dumb ass oh my god that pissed me off so bad like what
2026-06-13 18:54:38
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agni :
When you say that you got help elsewhere, do you mean private therapy? Is that what helped eventually? 🙏
2026-06-12 23:05:26
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agni :
Also, I understand that your life improved significantly since you went no contact, but how about the other feelings that come with it, not belonging, loneliness, etc? How do you manage life with those feelings? Would you be ok if you didn’t have your husband? Sorry I’m just really going through it now and I’ve got no one. I’ve got friends but they wouldn’t understand
2026-06-12 23:07:32
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tealmoonblood :
Been struggling with these thoughts, thank you for talking about it.❤️
2026-06-13 09:38:35
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KirstyAnne♡ :
hugs and loves mel xoxo
your so strong & brave 🥰
2026-06-11 19:13:04
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amylouise1620 :
Thank you for sharing this 💗 appreciated, sending love & hugs xx
2026-06-11 22:38:45
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