1: Prioritize your self care.. Take care of your body.. Take care of your health.. Take care of your looks.. Don’t look so cheap.. Don’t look so local.. Look appealing.. look decent.. look good.. 2: Pursue your dreams and goals as a woman..‘don’t be a liability to any one.. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you should fold your hands. Work like no one is coming to save you.. Work to add more value to your life and become better each day.. 3: Have a life outside your relationship.. Don’t bulge him with too many calls and chats.. Live your own life.. Go out with friends.. go out for get together.. Have fun outside.. Don’t let your life revolve just round your relationship only.. Do things that makes you happy.. 4: Stay disciplined and set boundaries.. Don’t let your relationship change your morals.. Men value women who are highly disciplined.. A man cannot respect you more if you are not disciplined.. he cannot love you more if you don’t set boundaries with him.. 5: Contribute positively into his life and into the relationship.. Relationship is not a one sided affair.. A man shouldn’t keep you because of your body .. a man shouldn’t love you because of Segz.. If he does that.. the moment you say no to him.. then you will have your self to blame.. Add more value to his life.. 6: Add more value to your life.. Men don’t play with women who has value.. A woman who has a value attracts respect and dignity to herself.. Let people know you positively.. Let people know you through the value you bring.. 7: Stay Confident and positive.. Your self esteem is your worth as a woman.. Don’t let anyone bring down your self esteem.. Hold on to it.. Carry your self as a prize.. The way you see your self is actually the way people will see you.. If you have low self confidence.. it will be hard for a man to respect.. Carry your self like a queen.. despite your educational qualifications.. career.. age.. color or height.. 8: Don’t ignore the red flags.. point them out immediately you see them.. Don’t assume that he will change later.. Don’t compromise because of love.. Once he’s coming up with those red flags.. point them out.. don’t ignore or overlook.. thinking he will change or you will change him later.. 9: Avoid over billing him or being too dependent on him.. Before you met him.. you were eating well.. You were buying your lotions and paying your rent. Don’t overbill him.. Don’t make him assume you can’t live without his money. Learn to take care of your self with your own money.. Learn to spend on your own self.. Never let him assume you can’t survive without him.. 10: Never compromise your standards !! I repeat.. never compromise your standards.. A man respects you because of your standards.. Don’t love with your heart only.. also love with your head.. Don’t be too emotional.. Love with your heart and head.. - @vibeswgee1