@lifecoachshawn: In this video, I talk about a woman who shared a story time of a man that expected her to cancel her standing dance class for first date with him. Here’s what I think he really wanted her to do. #Dating #DatingTips #DatingAdvice #Single #Relationships
That’s immediate boundary testing and an extreme red flag 🚩
2026-06-11 19:12:59
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Lovelyrj619 :
You had 6 other options of day and picked weds? It was a test of boundaries
2026-06-11 19:38:14
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nickoleevette :
There were literally 6 & 1/2 other days to choose from 🙄
2026-06-11 20:54:14
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GreenWitch :
"yes I can miss one class if I want to, but I dont want to for a man who didn't listen to me in the first place. "
2026-06-11 20:10:02
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pretty_t72 :
That was selfish.. he did that on purpose!!!!!
2026-06-11 19:18:14
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💜💜💜PurpleLadyKP💜💜💜 :
How do you start it off with ignoring boundaries?
2026-06-11 19:22:11
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NtUrAvgSupersHero :
I haven’t even decided if I like him yet. I know I like that class.
2026-06-11 19:30:26
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cat sparrow :
Now I’m busy ALL the days 🙄😡
2026-06-11 19:52:51
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sunflowerdreamstar86 :
A guy did that to me AND I blocked him
2026-06-11 21:00:12
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gitalks :
I’d tell him okay and block him 24 hours prior to the date so that he doesn’t get his booking deposit back
2026-06-11 19:15:52
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ShariTDancer :
No dance related activities are negotiable
Whether it's social dancing or a dance class. No one comes between me and my dancing
2026-06-11 19:59:54
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Nikkha Li :
I would laugh at him then BLOCK. Absolutely not.
2026-06-11 19:39:50
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Jenn :
That’s when you say “I guess we’ll see” and ghost him while you dance the night away at class.
2026-06-11 19:51:28
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MissReecie 🇵🇷 :
If he don’t respect my time uh uh
2026-06-11 20:39:10
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LisaPie💜OT7 :
As a woman who made my whole world about my husband from when we married at 19, to having switched it up to prioritizing me now, yeah, it was a bumpy ride and still there are times that are difficult for him. But that’s for him to process. I’m getting myself back. 44 now but started reclaiming my time and self back for the last 6 years.
2026-06-11 19:43:18
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Yvette Neko Loba :
I would have told him, "ya know what? I matched with another guy, he's taking me out on Saturday, so no. I don't need to cancel my plans for you." then block him on everything.
2026-06-11 19:44:01
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Diego_my_darling 🇨🇦 🇺🇸 :
I could miss it but I'm not going to. I like the class, I'm not so sure about you.
2026-06-11 19:25:47
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Autumn Nash :
My 7 year old has learned at his young age to ask if there are plans or obligations before asking for something’s ex: mom do you have anything Saturday? I’d like to go to friends house.
2026-06-11 19:19:51
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Toni :
He chose it on purpose
2026-06-11 20:18:38
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👑 آلاء 👑 :
Testing boundaries is the biggest red flag .
2026-06-11 20:39:55
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miss strawberry :
I have unmatched block people for less
2026-06-11 20:12:18
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