@lifecoachshawn: In this video, I talk about a woman who shared a story time of a man that expected her to cancel her standing dance class for first date with him. Here’s what I think he really wanted her to do. #Dating #DatingTips #DatingAdvice #Single #Relationships

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vic194727
Victoria 🦋 :
That’s immediate boundary testing and an extreme red flag 🚩
2026-06-11 19:12:59
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lovelyrj6193
Lovelyrj619 :
You had 6 other options of day and picked weds? It was a test of boundaries
2026-06-11 19:38:14
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nickoleevette
nickoleevette :
There were literally 6 & 1/2 other days to choose from 🙄
2026-06-11 20:54:14
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elphaba1111
GreenWitch :
"yes I can miss one class if I want to, but I dont want to for a man who didn't listen to me in the first place. "
2026-06-11 20:10:02
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pretty_t72
pretty_t72 :
That was selfish.. he did that on purpose!!!!!
2026-06-11 19:18:14
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purpleladykp
💜💜💜PurpleLadyKP💜💜💜 :
How do you start it off with ignoring boundaries?
2026-06-11 19:22:11
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nturavgsupershero
NtUrAvgSupersHero :
I haven’t even decided if I like him yet. I know I like that class.
2026-06-11 19:30:26
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catnsparrow
cat sparrow :
Now I’m busy ALL the days 🙄😡
2026-06-11 19:52:51
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sunflowerdreamstar86
sunflowerdreamstar86 :
A guy did that to me AND I blocked him
2026-06-11 21:00:12
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gitalks
gitalks :
I’d tell him okay and block him 24 hours prior to the date so that he doesn’t get his booking deposit back
2026-06-11 19:15:52
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sharitdancer
ShariTDancer :
No dance related activities are negotiable Whether it's social dancing or a dance class. No one comes between me and my dancing
2026-06-11 19:59:54
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nikkha.li
Nikkha Li :
I would laugh at him then BLOCK. Absolutely not.
2026-06-11 19:39:50
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jenn232025
Jenn :
That’s when you say “I guess we’ll see” and ghost him while you dance the night away at class.
2026-06-11 19:51:28
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missreecie
MissReecie 🇵🇷 :
If he don’t respect my time uh uh
2026-06-11 20:39:10
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lisa_pie81
LisaPie💜OT7 :
As a woman who made my whole world about my husband from when we married at 19, to having switched it up to prioritizing me now, yeah, it was a bumpy ride and still there are times that are difficult for him. But that’s for him to process. I’m getting myself back. 44 now but started reclaiming my time and self back for the last 6 years.
2026-06-11 19:43:18
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yvettenekoloba
Yvette Neko Loba :
I would have told him, "ya know what? I matched with another guy, he's taking me out on Saturday, so no. I don't need to cancel my plans for you." then block him on everything.
2026-06-11 19:44:01
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diego_my_darling
Diego_my_darling 🇨🇦 🇺🇸 :
I could miss it but I'm not going to. I like the class, I'm not so sure about you.
2026-06-11 19:25:47
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queenofnashville
Autumn Nash :
My 7 year old has learned at his young age to ask if there are plans or obligations before asking for something’s ex: mom do you have anything Saturday? I’d like to go to friends house.
2026-06-11 19:19:51
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apolovure
Toni :
He chose it on purpose
2026-06-11 20:18:38
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alaa.aloya84
👑 آلاء 👑 :
Testing boundaries is the biggest red flag .
2026-06-11 20:39:55
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missstrawberry1126
miss strawberry :
I have unmatched block people for less
2026-06-11 20:12:18
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