@keylimelanna: Holding all of our hands when i say this #actuallyautistic

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bajablastoise_
Nick :
People give 50%, take long breaks, walk around, stop to chat, but that’s all okay because they show up everyday. I give 100% everyday, follow schedule, don’t waste time. BUT WHEN I CALL OUT FROM BEING BURNT OUT it’s like I’m the worst employee ever.
2026-06-12 06:52:17
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gaywallets
Bunny :
All of the rules are based on social capital and access to power and resources. The most popular kid at school doesn't have the same set of rules as anyone else attending, the same way that billionaires aren't subject to the same laws. Rules aren't based in logic or sound reasoning, they exist to solidify existing structures of power. Once you understand this paradigm, you can better understand what rules can be challenged and which ones cannot by finding out how others feel about these rules and assessing power dynamics.
2026-06-11 21:00:24
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jojos.peculiar.ex
JoJo’s Peculiar Excursion :
As an autistic, I do break the rules, but I’ve learned I gotta be smart about which ones I break and also, no matter the circumstances, do not talk about it or even mention it in passing.
2026-06-12 00:15:30
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kati.goes
Kati | Music :
It is okay for us IF leadership likes us. It is only okay to break the rules if you are liked. This is true for everyone regardless of their divergency status
2026-06-12 02:04:29
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nationalise_spoons
nationalise_spoons :
for example, when a job says it has "flexible hours", that means your boss can take a day off with no notice, you still have to be in at 9am every day.
2026-06-11 23:15:06
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anarchafeminist
an-fem 🍉 :
Legitimately this will send me into a rage sometimes.
2026-06-12 19:12:42
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gennbear
gennbear :
so anyways I hardly leave my house now
2026-06-12 16:38:49
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pnkzeroo
ρꪀᛕZꫀЯ𖦹˳ᐟ :
No no no you don't get it, everyone is allowed BUT us
2026-07-21 10:16:07
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dicey526
Dicey :
the secret is about who likes u and who ur breaking the rules in front of
2026-06-12 23:39:10
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strawberry_hjonk
The Elysian System :
I treat it as we were taught in music class: you cant break the rules until you understand them. there are some rules i will never understand all the parts of so I just gotta keep following them 😭
2026-06-11 22:33:02
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detectivecamjansen
Dany, Moonstar, Prob :
you couldve told me this before I lost the job
2026-06-12 05:10:46
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bestwotgirl
Min Farshaw :
It really does feel like that
2026-06-15 01:38:43
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.xiohr
Xiohr :
I don't break rules until I understand how they are to be implemented
2026-06-11 20:00:23
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amuckamuckamuck
alyx :
But I also get in trouble for not “breaking the rules sometimes” or not being lenient about the rules. It also makes my coworkers upset that I uphold the rules. It’s like I can’t win idk what to do
2026-06-13 20:44:19
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moouwu.bby
ᖭི༏ᖫྀMooUwU ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :
If you start out giving 110% then you are going to be expected to give that amount forever. Go in with less until you’ve gauged the general atmosphere and then give that same amount
2026-06-14 01:29:33
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elisatheelf
ElisaTheElf | Twitch Streamer :
oh like when my supervisor got to work 100% remote for over a month due to her car breaking down, but when mine got totaled in an accident they expected me to Uber in?
2026-06-16 12:29:21
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my_soulsaver
Dan♾️🌈 :
they told me i could leave once there is nothing more to do so i did then in the end they asked why i didn’t stay until the end
2026-06-13 13:31:44
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darth_becca
Darth_Becca :
Whew, not true for me. If the rule doesn’t make sense to me, I’m prolly not gonna follow it.
2026-06-13 19:02:57
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jedsawyerslefttoenails
Mia :
everyone else is on their phone at work but when I check the time I'm yelled at for being on my phone all day. I'm literally the only one who is not?!
2026-07-21 14:43:42
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kobeniv2
Frenmoder :
I don't follow rules unless they make sense. if I think a rule is stupid I'm not following it.
2026-07-28 02:50:43
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2000killergeese
2000killergeese :
I think I finally figured out why this happens! You can break the social rules, but only in the right conditions. The rule breaking has to be appropriate for the place/situation, the people around you have to be okay with you breaking it, and the delivery/timing has to be right as well. If any of these are off, that’s when people react badly because they aren’t expecting it. Now, if only it weren’t so hard for me to pick up on all of the cues in the moment,,, 🥹
2026-06-15 17:46:34
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jonahstargold
Jonah☆Gold :
If the rule doesn't make sense I will confront them and argue with them about it idc
2026-07-19 14:34:24
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616kittypryde
soph ✡︎🕊️ :
ive found if you ask your boss before you break a rule they usually are more likely in the future to let you! I.E. I ask my boss “Hey John can I leave 30 minutes early today since I didn’t take a lunch?” this allows the boss to have autonomy over the decision (they like that) and presents you as responsible for asking!
2026-06-13 20:17:51
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twotoncarmen
Thick Tik :
just tell people what they want to hear. works EVERY time, makes social much easier. GG
2026-06-23 03:46:42
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lilith_a_a
Luna ☆ :
this put me in so much trouble when i was a kid 😭
2026-06-11 19:48:14
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