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𝒥𝒫ℛ :
Omg you’re the lady that got engaged to the ex-con.
2026-06-11 23:27:13
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A :
You got engaged to a man that you had only known for a few weeks, and you are diagnosed with mental disorders that have some pretty intense symptoms and you’re pregnant and not medicated. Babe… you need the meds. Just because what you tried didn’t work, doesn’t mean you don’t need them. You just need to find the right ones.
2026-06-12 18:24:09
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purplemothdance :
One of my longtime friends gave 2 children up in her late teens. Then in her late twenties she got married and had 3 more kids. She and all the children are happy and healthy! I'm very glad you are in a better place now and congratulations on the baby!
2026-06-12 14:12:35
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rosebud :
No judgement here at least you didn’t abort it
2026-06-12 16:27:35
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welsey.killiams :
Coming from genuine concern & also know skirting around issues never helps anyone. The hard truth is often what people need who have not been given proper guidance in life. As someone with bipolar who has a mother with borderline, it’s extremely concerning to not be on the right medication. It’s obvious you’re still very off balance, but you can’t see it. “Everyone else is wrong” mentality is the first sign of having symptoms. It’s not something you can just grow into or know yourself better. Others without these mental illnesses can see when someone is off whether or not they know it’s mental illness. It’s a significant imbalance of the brain’s functioning. Medication can help from mental illness from progressing, getting worse or coming out of nowhere- especially in the postpartum phase. You can feel completely normal again where you don’t feel you have to defend yourself because of your decision making or even worry postpartum will come. Without meds, it will come back a 3rd time. I had postpartum psychosis with my first 2 & I’m done because I would never put my family through that again. It’s too much on other people’s plates when we all have enough going on. It’s a huge red flag that you only named 4 people as supports- 3 being your baby daddy & his parents. Second red flag, what mother would suggest to her son that he takes a lot of time off work if his partner has postpartum depression? It’s not like he has a career where he’s banked vacation time or can use parental leave. They’ll flop if he’s not supporting them. 3rd time around- you should have a much better plan than this. I genuinely hope you turn it around for the sake of your 3rd child.
2026-06-12 00:41:46
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Megan Leann 🌻 :
Yeah you’re gonna have to answer these kids one day and they are gonna wanna know why they wasn’t enough but the one you wanna keep is.
2026-06-12 14:15:15
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1519352510101615193 :
I understand having a kid at 18 and giving him up for adoption. I don’t get having one 2 years later when you haven’t figured out your mental health
2026-06-12 00:07:07
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Fashy :
do u ever hear about ur kid?
2026-06-11 21:43:53
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user8947742273519 :
Why are people always "your body, your choice" until it comes to this? People have a right to change their minds. You do not need to explain yourself to anyone!
2026-06-12 03:04:16
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CynToks 🗞️✝️🤓 :
You gave two families a baby. That’s amazing. You should feel proud of yourself. Don’t let anyone tear you down. 💕💕💕💕
2026-06-12 18:54:05
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Gem 💎 :
You were young and did what was best for the children at the time. 🫶🏻
2026-06-11 22:28:57
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Babymoonjellies :
You made a hard choice and gave your first two children a safe life through adoption. The Internet is evil and will always beat you down. Protect your peace.
2026-06-12 00:24:29
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wisteriaeast :
You have a supportive partner, and that can make a huge difference! 🩷 Motherhood is not easy, no matter what, but lack of support makes things so much more difficult! Sending love and positivity!
2026-06-11 21:53:35
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beckythatgrl76 :
You knew in your heart to make the best decision for your babies & no else needs justification, you seem to have he right mindset & like you said you are in a different stage of your life & it sounds like your support system is solid 💕💕💕
2026-06-11 22:09:27
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team_bride_team_mother :
What a hurtful thing to hear while pregnant. I’m can’t imagine hearing this with pregnancy emotions ❤️sending love
2026-06-12 15:26:39
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Wendy :
You knew what was best for your child and yourself. No judgement here.
2026-06-12 14:21:21
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hunternjazzysmom :
If you’re happy, all the kids are happy and healthy, and you feel that you’re in a place to parent now, then that’s exactly what you should do. It’s your life - none of these commenters are living your life.
2026-06-12 14:25:24
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Melissa :
You did what you needed to do at the time. Keep your head up and protect your peace. People will always find a reason to hate on someone else, we only know what you decide to share on the internet and everyone deserves some grace.
2026-06-12 04:48:31
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Sharon Perez :
I think you made the right choice at the time !!! I hate people that are so cruel if you cant be positive dont say anything. I appreciate you explaining because Im human and curious, and do NOT be hard on yourself I know its hard but I feel you have picked up yourself all on your own and you deserve to be happy and so glad you found love Blaek you take care of this beautiful woman you will not regret it shes a beautiful soul inside and out and I really know you will take care of her!!
2026-06-11 21:50:22
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Melissa Lopez :
If you're comfortable sharing do you do get to see or contact your older children?
2026-06-11 22:36:04
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Kelly :
Your hair is so pretty and healthy.
2026-06-11 22:39:56
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Z :
Post partum was scary and confusing for me. Glad you have a supportive village this time around ❤️
2026-06-11 23:10:16
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.m.461 :
My brother and I were adopted- our bio mom had another child about 10 years later that she kept. Now she took off and left us with her bf (not our bio dad) happened when my brother was 1 and I was 5, he later adopted us. Anyways I’ve never held it against her or thought badly of her or been jealous or whatever about her keeping one child but not us. I’m glad she was able to become a healthy, happy, safe, and loving mom. She loved us enough to give us to someone who could give us what we needed and love us.
2026-06-12 17:36:59
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sarah :
Congrats on your new bby 🥰
2026-06-11 23:38:29
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Emily🩶 :
Ok but you chose adoption and not something else so I wish you the best and I hope you have a healthy and successful pregnancy
2026-06-12 14:35:03
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