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Aimee Carroll :
peace and stability feels scary, everything is fine but it feels bad because it’s so unfamiliar. I have complex PTSD and it’s like having a smoke alarm inside that is ready to go off every time I turn the stove on. 💖💖💖
2026-06-21 04:56:30
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miztracyann :
It has very little to do with the type of person you’re with or what is going on in life, life goes up and life goes down. It is actualy the conditioned attachment style you developed growing up.
2026-06-28 05:26:07
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CrEaTiVe~ChAoS :
It absolutely is it’s a trauma response
2026-06-12 02:36:06
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🔮 E.M.G.T.🔮 :
I think we get reminded of things like this because of the inevitable balance of things the yin to the Yang.. and because we’re kind of programmed to believe that everything goes in cycles — an up and then a down— and yes, this is true of life, however— what you said at the ending— I think that’s what people aim for and it’s OK to have a healthy level of fear because sometimes that kind of keeps everybody in line just a little bit… like we hate to admit it, but if we weren’t scared to lose something, we might not take it super seriously so sometimes I think it’s a self protection like hey you better not take this for granted because you know what happens when you do that!! also toxic relationships you can say they’re meant to teach us things and blah blah blah, but they make us doubt our own instincts because a person we thought we loved and trusted turns into this monster that ruins everything in our life -/or that’s how it feels— it makes us think that we can’t trust our own judgment.. so there’s a part of you thinking. Is the universe playing tricks on me??? is this too good to be true?👀!? what if we suddenly “switch” to a different type of dynamic.. like happened with the previous person?… so it becomes a constant battle of fighting to stay in the present moment because that’s all we really have but maintaining that healthy level of fear that helps to remind you that you should still do your best to be on your best behavior not in a performative way, but in a way that you’re giving that person and yourself the presence in the situation that you deserve but also taking care of yourself the way you deserve because that makes everybody happier when everybody’s doing better individually as well— and a lot of relationship problems come from self neglect seeping over— so stay present keep working on yourself and keep remembering that it is special and that it is lucky in a sense because a lot of people are looking for a happy relationship and you’re acknowledging that doesn’t mean perfect all of the time— so it sounds to me like you just have a healthy perspective and that you’re just saying the part that a lot of people don’t want to admit out loud.
2026-06-13 01:54:29
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Ayso So 🪼 :
Don’t know what to say. Hope i will have a happy relationship one day
2026-06-12 20:45:28
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kfin :
im pretty sure its just trust issue's (yes ik it's sounds a lil to simple but that just what it is)
2026-06-12 01:40:40
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CrEaTiVe~ChAoS :
Just reassure yourself
2026-06-12 02:36:13
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Salty Vixen :
My boyfriend does it. It is ahhh-noing 😂 i still stay. He frustrates me
2026-06-12 13:40:52
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