@nori.byella: Because now I just share the to-do list. 🙃🤍 If it’s important enough to remember, it goes in @Nori . No more asking 5 times, no more being the household reminder app. ✨📝😂 #mom #Relationship #reallife #MentalLoad
“You have to ask us nicely” UMMMM actually I shouldn’t have to ask you in the FIRST PLACE
2026-06-12 11:58:58
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Jen :
One thing I read that changed my brain chemistry is the 'annoying nagging wife' trope is actually a 'lazy husband who doesn't help' trope framed to villainize women
2026-06-12 13:45:32
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Uniquelycici :
why is this the 4th video on my fyp with the exact same saying word for word
2026-06-13 02:40:52
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The_life_of_LuLu :
As far as I can see there are zero benefits to marriage, for women.
2026-06-12 18:02:30
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Sam ❤️🔥 :
“I’m not a mind reader!” As if they can’t see what’s a mess/needs to be done.
2026-06-12 15:42:09
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Susan Fowler :
return the favour. Cook meals only for yourself, wash only your clothes, only shop for your own groceries and when he complains, tell him that you assumed he wasn't in the relationship as an equal and he was only a room mate. he wants equality, then step up and take 50%responsibility
2026-06-12 22:49:04
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Kasey Nicole :
Dudes in the comments acting like trash doesn't pile up or that trash collectors don't have a schedule. Like, yes, let's just let the garbage overflow, not take it out so we miss the collector, and have to wait another week with an over full, disgusting, smelly garbage.
2026-06-12 11:10:32
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🦇AJ🦇 :
I just started telling him the same, "I will!" when he asks for anything. He calls it petty, I call it "why are you nagging me, I TOLD YOU I would!!!" just like him. Oh but it's only cool if he does it?!
2026-06-12 10:33:51
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Pheebs 🇨🇦 :
Men better smarten up because my generation isn’t putting up with that shit. Being single is easier than having to raise a husband 🤷🏻♀️
2026-06-12 17:45:04
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Gabriela Card 🇸🇻 🇨🇦 :
My now ex husband called it b i t c h i n g 🙄 . That’s why he’s an ex now
2026-06-12 19:59:48
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brooke :
Unfortunately for most men it’s a “if I wait then I know she’ll do it eventually” mentality but with literally everything. Guarantee if his boss says “do this” he fucking DOES. IT.
2026-06-12 14:37:17
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Jennifer Lynn Hill :
“Just make me a list” like they’re little kids and need a chore list to see what needs to be done around the house they live in.
2026-06-12 13:37:56
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Dan :
I typically take the trash out and to the road Sunday night. If I forget my wife will do it. She never says a word about it. I tell her thank you when I get home. She says "no problem". She's awesome.
2026-06-12 10:22:48
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౨ৎ 𝔰𝔦𝔢𝔫𝔫𝔞 :
All the guys in the comments calling themselves out for being inconsiderate and incompetent 😭
2026-06-12 21:06:43
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aliya🪷 :
And to him it’s a “favor” when in reality it’s just a normal responsibility 😅
2026-06-12 16:20:26
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Madi :
I live with my Bf and MIL rn and I wanted to clean the house bc my stepmom is coming to help me bake cupcakes for my daughter's bday and we have a German shepherd mix and tracks dirt in sadly and I cleaned the house and swept and I just asked him to vacuum and mop 5 times maybe more and he said yes each time willingly and never did it and now hes asleep and I did that all 17 weeks pregnant and an infection in my leg like bruh
2026-06-12 11:29:27
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⋆.𐙚 ̊ 𝒫ℯ𝒶𝓃𝓊𝓉 ⋆.𐙚 ̊ :
my boyfriend has been putting off going to the store and buying his own shampoo and conditioner for 2 weeks. he’s getting it tonight 😭
2026-06-12 19:04:45
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Donuttoleratesciolists :
They always have an “out” to everything. That’s what manipulators do. It just means they don’t respect, like or even consider you, they benefit from you like a parasite.
2026-06-13 02:37:40
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🪻🧚🏻♀️Trip🧚🏻♀️🪻 :
my thing is, would your boss have to ask you 5 times to do something? if not then i shouldn't have to
2026-06-12 14:21:14
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MemeMachine69 :
This was probably the first time she asked, and was mad you didn't stop what you were doing to do it that exact moment.
2026-06-12 19:00:29
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staticrain :
Y’all have too much time in hand. I don’t even speak anymore. I just don’t ask, I do it myself but I have also stopped doing anything for him. I do not do his laundry, I do not cook for him, I do not clean up after him. “Babe, why is there no food for me?” “You didn’t ask me to cook for you” and if he says anything, I always go:”omg, you’re always nagging me.” He’s starting to get the memo.
2026-06-12 22:53:00
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Clockwork_Li0ness :
Especially when it’s something like the bins where there’s a regular schedule. He knows when his football team plays every week but he can’t remember the trash truck is always on Thursday? 🙄
2026-06-12 12:21:35
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Emily Choplin :
Assuming they lived on their own at any point, they should know what needs to be done
2026-06-12 13:49:56
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♡⃛ɞ𝓊𝓃𝓃𝓎♡⃛ :
You guys need to stop allowing these grown men behave like that.
2026-06-12 23:07:03
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Justherefortheentertainment :
how do men survive on their own? And why do all these tasks that they would have to do when living on their own suddenly disappear and don’t cross their minds when living with a women. 🤔
2026-06-12 10:08:43
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