Conner Shadler
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rae🍓 :
i want my baby back…
2026-06-12 22:05:48
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fastorange1621 :
We split up Sunday 6/7/26 5 days ago. Everything hurts, I'm hungry but I can't eat. I can't focus on anything other than thinking of her.
2026-06-12 02:38:52
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Tarynn 💜 :
The amount of comments that I see a guy missing their love I wish mine could have been like that .. he’s avoidant and honestly i don’t know if he will come back it feels like not
2026-06-12 17:17:24
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mycah lei_24 :
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2026-06-30 01:05:07
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viaivet :
I noticed my avoidant was sending shorter responses so I told him let me take a step back—we have two beautiful cats together and beautiful memories, moments—we inspire each other so much however my avoidant went no contact with me june 5 literally felt like he flipped a switch from I love you so much bby and I miss our boys (cats) to completely nothing. I am an anxious attachment style I love him so much and I can truly say I showed him true and safe love. We normally communicate through our moments or small arguments—however this time it was over me needing reassurance and he tried to be okay the following two days but when I kept asking if he was upset about me asking for reassurance he pushed me away. Didn’t communicate just disappeared and he knows I get anxious and he didn’t care. He was back home with family so I know he was overwhelmed but wow a simple I love you bby you have nothing to worry about would have been enough. Now, my heart is shattered because I’m in a limbo—he’s been watching my stories etc and I know he will be reaching out because of our cats. But now I feel so many different ups and downs and that’s completely unfair. When I’m upset with him he wants me to shake it off right away but him being upset with me means no contact. It’s the worst feeling and it shatters your nervous system completely. (I’ll update when my avoidant breaks no contact. I know he loves me and will be breaking no contact)
2026-06-14 04:49:18
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user :
But the issue is, why would I want someone who treated me like an option
2026-06-13 04:35:31
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Alejandra ✨ :
He left 8 weeks after I gave birth. My heart was shattered. But when I saw he also gave up on our son, I grew strong and healed my heart so I could show up for my son. We deserve better
2026-06-12 04:40:59
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Emma 🧿🪬 :
My DA came back 3 times 🤣 I blocked him in the end
2026-06-12 08:13:02
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𝔇𝔞𝔣𝔦𝔫𝔢𝔰𝔱💝 :
I want my man back 🥹
2026-06-13 09:26:06
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johnthebroke :
he won’t. his ego is too big. he dont care at all
2026-08-09 11:33:45
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Moe Sandar Kyaw :
I don’t believe in an avoidant, they just not into you 100%. They need to stop playing games with good people, work on themselves and heal. I understand that trauma can explain why someone behaves a certain way, but it doesn’t excuse hurting others. A lot of people have experienced abandonment, rejection, or trauma, yet we still have a responsibility to work on ourselves and communicate in healthy ways. Understanding the reason behind a behavior and taking accountability for it are two different things.
2026-06-13 23:18:43
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sonya :
I miss him so much may he please come back to me
2026-06-13 08:12:48
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Mateooo🤠 :
We can’t hope on that tho. But we have to be patient and let them be. But don’t be patient bc you’re hoping they will come back. Let people experience your loss. Wish them the best and root for them from afar. Maybe they will come back when they realize what they lost, but you have to work on yourself so you don’t fall back into that pattern. To love them is to let them go and give them what they’re asking. It’s uncomfortable but going thru the motions of healing will make you comfortable with the uncomfortable. You can hope they made the right choice and just help them stand on their decision.
2026-06-13 22:04:54
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Renee :
Claiming
2026-07-22 23:59:29
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sammy ✞ :
only if its in Gods will in the future
2026-07-12 17:41:36
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Mememe :
: I just miss the first version of him 😔 he’s like an stranger now
2026-07-11 12:53:33
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Marissa :
and I'll still be here waiting with open arms
2026-07-08 18:27:37
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🐐 :
I just want my baby back.
2026-06-22 19:32:45
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Jasmine :
: i want my baby back…
2026-06-13 08:48:22
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G_Dawgus :
I just want my baby back. I miss her.
2026-06-14 20:59:23
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Bri :
He moved on immediately but I still really hope he comes back even though I know I’m dumb. I just wanted a family with him
2026-06-13 21:24:51
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Lbreeeezzyyy :
They Never come back .
2026-06-12 09:38:32
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Adriana Contreras :
He’s with someone else…
2026-06-13 00:14:28
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Ari :
I asked mine if he missed me and he said it’s not a yes or a no he’s just simply turned it off and just knows how to not feel 😭😭
2026-06-12 22:35:00
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Joan40🇬🇷 :
The trauma bond is so torturing..you never get to heal
2026-06-12 17:43:24
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