@iamsarahboutros: Being needed feels like love because it gives you a role, a purpose, a reason to stay - but it’s often just two wounds finding a temporary home in each other. When someone needs you, they hold on; when someone loves you, they choose you even when they don’t have to. The danger of building a relationship on need is that the moment you stop being useful, the connection starts to crack - because it was never really about you, it was about what you provided.