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Darth vader :
well done Elon on being the worlds first trillionaire
2026-06-12 17:38:42
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char :
please don't feel shame. it is a system that has evolved to be against us. we can't compare ourselves to previous generations for that reason.
2026-06-12 16:07:14
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Peaches :
I’m 34 and realised the other day, the only way I’m going to own a house is when my parents die and me and my siblings inherit the family home. I don’t own a thing other than furniture and appliances. I’m childfree, happily, by choice but I feel like I’m loosing at life.
2026-06-12 12:45:31
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ARBI :
32, 2 kids, work full time, renting, no savings, lots of debt, and no inheritance will be coming my way 😅
2026-06-12 15:54:23
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Olimpia :
Im 41, single and dont own anything. It's not possible in this economy for someone with zero helo from parents or grandparents and no other half.
2026-06-12 14:59:26
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sez :
I'm 53. Lost everything. I'm going back to work full time next year and hope to buy another house in the next 5 years. Baby steps.
2026-06-12 13:06:22
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katedoesmoney :
Don’t buy a house. If I had my time again I wouldn’t buy one and would just rent. Rent a house to live and buy BTL or put your money into ETF
2026-06-12 16:14:40
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Courtney Lorelle Rus :
34 nearly 19 grand in debt not including student debt same, no savings trying to build some though for emergencies and clearing debt your not alone it’s hard
2026-06-12 15:41:57
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user7082059841747 :
You are judging yourself by the standards of past generations. Theres no need to own a house and leasing a car is possibly better than buying one. The ONLY criticism of your situation is the pension, which you need to deal with. Do not beat yourself up over your situation, theres no reason too... will follow just to help ❤️
2026-06-12 11:31:22
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Everydayinvestoruk :
If you live with your parents you should be able to save 10k a year. Most people live with their parents through their youth
2026-06-12 18:41:46
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SkullMunky :
I started work at 18 and i listened to the lads at work, “don’t bother with pension it’s a scam”. I’m 37 now and because of the lack of knowledge from me and the my co workers, I’d set myself back years. Luckily the opt out pension came in and I’ve got a little something now. Upped my contributions and playing catch up. There’s still time for me, and you.
2026-06-12 15:09:54
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Cheska 🌺 :
Literally had a meltdown about this today. Completely done with life and grafting for nothing!!! 😩😩
2026-06-12 17:45:36
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🇬🇧Matt Richard🇬🇧 :
I only started with a pension at 33 when I got a job that matched contributions. I started a degree at 31 to get into the profession I went into at 33. Im now 45 still in the profession and now 12yrs into the pension. I had credit card debts in my 30s, will have them now and that is a bone of contention within me but I’ll recognise it’s hard to pay if debts whilst still living!!! I’m going to follow your journey on your other page…you can do this!!!!
2026-06-12 19:22:27
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FarneyExpat :
I didn't buy a house til I was 39, didn't start saving til 36, didn't clear other debts til 42. earlier would have been better, but it's never too late
2026-06-12 17:34:11
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Silly Goose ✨ :
This and then you see folk on here with £100000s in ISAs etc, makes me feel even more guilty, life is so heavy
2026-06-12 17:51:50
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haribo :
I'm 29 , don't have a credit card, no car , no mortgage, no kids have severe stage 4 Endometriosis and adenomyosis 💀 the only good thing is I'm in no debt 💀
2026-06-12 09:45:14
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oranapplech :
no pension is wild tbh
2026-06-12 23:27:33
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Queenie 👑 :
Everyone ahead of me has had silent inheritance.
2026-06-12 18:28:15
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Jes :
Just say goodbye to the idea of owning a house I did too I never think about it
2026-06-12 21:08:17
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libramoonlesbian :
I’m in a very similar position, I feel such a sense of deep shame of not being more together but at the same time I have no idea how to make any change? Like my job just isn’t paying enough to live let alone save and i’ve given up on the idea of a pension! Solidarity because it’s so hard to not feel stuck!!
2026-06-12 10:42:33
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MO Fraz :
don't get stressed I'm near 50 I lost my house car and money to a cheating ex , but I have my son full time i work and rebuilding my life step by step
2026-06-12 12:58:41
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dhc_69 :
Very open and honest post. Would be interested to hear more on where you are. E.g salary and current debt, goals etc
2026-06-13 00:18:11
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Frankie :
31 absolutely skint, in dept and the only reason I own a home is because my mom died 🙃 don’t worry we’re all in a mess x
2026-06-13 22:02:36
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J 🌸 :
Only in the process of buying a house at 32 but the last 4 years we have lived with my dad to save. 8 years renting didnt have a pot to piss in only way was moving back home.
2026-06-12 15:24:14
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