@twohottakes.us: My husband keeps buying cheap gifts and doesn't get why it hurts my feelings #redditreadings #redditstories #twohottakes #Relationship #aita #aitareddit #storytelling #fyp #marriage
Maybe ask him why instead of getting you the things that you’re asking for specifically, he’s choosing something else? Rather than focus on the price, focus on the fact that there are specific things being pointed out and he’s choosing to look for something similar instead of the actual gift. Lead with curiosity and an eagerness to understand 🤷🏻♀️just a thought
2026-06-16 22:14:42
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catsordogs :
I’m the same with good pastries/danish. For birthday and mother’s day he bought cheap or frozen supermarket ones. When my kids were finally old enough to weigh in I made sure they knew. Play the long game
2026-06-17 09:37:13
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TheWoodyIsGoody :
My wife and I exchange wish lists. We are both super hard to shop for. Makes it easier and we always get something we actually want / need.
2026-06-16 21:07:12
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MFlorentine1986 :
If he bought it on your account why can't you just cancel the order?
2026-06-16 20:26:41
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Iknowme :
I would also rather have donuts than jewelry.
2026-06-17 15:21:39
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ちよさま :
She appreciates the gifts?are those gifts?
2026-06-16 21:26:47
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ChiaraB :
I understand. I don't want to generalize my way of thinking, but in my experience I do spend ALSO accordingly to how much I care.
Mind, I appreciate the smallest act like getting a single candy, or a specific flower in a field, or a post-it heart felt note.
Though I also would be quite often ok in spending my money on people I care and appreciate, again, ALSO as a way of showing them the care and "proportion", lets say. As much as the opposite...
Not being *systematically* cheap all the time with respect to others.
Then, different people different logics.
2026-06-16 20:36:43
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Sana_M1r :
Why did she not address this before the marriage 😭
2026-06-17 14:19:55
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My boyfriend does the same thing
2026-06-17 00:07:00
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akmom :
Match his energy
2026-06-16 21:05:58
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KaylaKristy :
start matching his energy
2026-06-17 09:17:51
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IAMBiSHx :
There seems to be no effort. It’s not hard to find things that your Partner over for a good price but you have to get what they are wanting.
2026-06-16 20:50:48
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papawsonlygirl :
Talk to hi. and explain everything and how you feel. If he doesn't do better then Start getting him the cheap crap.
2026-06-17 02:44:33
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