@invinciblevenus5: What do I do if I’m in my early twenties, dating the same person since Highschool, I wanna be with him/her forever - but I also want to find out who I really am in my 20s?

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lmssofficial
MLS :
You can Explore the World and yourself in a monogamous relationship too btw. Not everything is about sex btw.
2026-06-13 13:33:03
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louiebakershotgf
💤oe :
I just broke up with my long term boyfriend last week for these exact reasons. We had been together from 15-22. I wanted to explore more and he wouldn’t let me. We could not agree, so I had to prioritise myself. I feel relived and heartbroken at the same time
2026-06-13 02:10:16
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softlyrosiee
rosie ⋆.𐙚 ̊ :
In my opinion, I think it’s a testament to love that some people find their soulmates when they are young and know they want to grow old with them, and will do anything to make that happen. My fiancé and I met when we were 11 and now at 24 we’ve both travelled the world (independently and together), bought a house, gone through college and jobs and adopted a cat. We’ve given each other space to grow and change- neither of us are the person we were when we met as kids but our love is still the same, if not stronger. I don’t think it’s worth losing our relationship just to experience the hook-up/partying culture when we are still young enough to party together and with our friends. Again, just my opinion
2026-06-13 18:33:47
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bunnylatifa
Latifa :
i am 22 and have been with my bf since 19. we are monogamous but long distance (only see eachother every 5 months or so). i think this helped me a lot to keep growing by myself. i feel safe that i have someone that cares about me, but at the same time i work, study and have my own friends. i dont know anyone with the same expirience. most of my friends who had long distance relationships hated it and seperated quickly. but i think its quite freeing and i dont feel so suffocated.
2026-06-12 16:27:51
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abriennemacari
abriennemacari :
On the flipside I’m 25 and have been with my partner since I was 14 (11 years). We have decided we can still do all these exciting things together that you have mentioned. Go camping together, club + get absolutely wasted together, do stupid shit together, go through life together etc. I think all that matters is if you are both on the same page and are willing to not hold each other back but also respect one another and have the same/similar ambitions (marriage/steady income household/children) together you should be okay. I think the “dating scene/ experimentation phase” in your 20s is a waste of time and a distraction from truly hustling and making the most money for yourself by your 30s-40s. When really if your fortunate enough to have this kind of relationship, already living together and building life together EARLY sets you up a lot earlier for life long term. Like you said this is the time you’ll have the most health and energy. Really right now is the time to lock tf in and work towards what you want in life.
2026-06-15 07:25:28
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vkdep1900
vkdep1900 :
I’m 31 and I’ve been with my partner since I was 19. I struggled with this ‘fomo’ issue a few years in. It’s a difficult situation but I believe rather than trying to figure out what the ‘right’ decision It’s about choosing a path and making it the ‘right’ decision. I don’t know if I’m explaining myself right. However I will say my partner is not controlling and I value my independence. In terms of experiences, friendships, jobs, countries I am very well experienced and so is he.
2026-06-12 17:08:12
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froggyforbes
froggy :
This makes no sense to me as someone who’s been with my partner since 17 and still together after 6 years bc we do all these fun things together, experiencing life together is far more satisfying to us both than doing it single, u don’t need to be single to figure out who u r . Just be friends with ur partner as well as them being your partner
2026-06-15 04:23:02
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zwbdk
zwbdk :
It can also be exciting to discover together with a partner who you are. Changing is normal in life, but makes it interesting. Splitting up is just the easy solution. I actually think its a shame that most people use the easy way out.
2026-06-12 23:44:19
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sjl3358
sjl3358 :
This is why my ex broke up with me. But he says he wants to get back together in the future. I find it hard moving on because I know we both want to reunite eventually
2026-06-12 13:21:32
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g.438
g :
i was with my ex from 16-24 and i loved him dearly but i could tell it wasn’t working, we had grown apart and i held it in for so long because i was so scared of things changing but ultimately it was for the the best. I don't know if I've made the best decisions since then but its been freeing to know that they are my own decisions and that I can just do that.
2026-06-12 13:09:59
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abimar_5
Abi :
Relationship 15-18 and single for 5 years. So grateful for it
2026-06-12 13:23:13
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tariskagaming
tariskaGaming :
i was in a relationship from 18-29 and i was very single during these 11 years 😭
2026-06-12 11:40:00
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99lack
💟 :
U got that ‘indubitably’ voice
2026-06-15 11:17:06
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miabbrooks
Mia :
What if you’re 27 feeling like this after nearly 7 years. There conversations seem directed towards early to mid twenties. I feel like I’ve aged way faster than I should have
2026-06-12 19:55:24
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sydkarina
karina 🧚🏽‍♀️ | sydney :
been single during Uni, been single during my semester abroad xx best experience before I met my partner
2026-06-13 12:50:41
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carpgoesfishing
sheen :
oddly enough, hearing this perspective helped me feel more anchored as my partner and i are both in a long-distance relationship while just starting our 20’s. though it is quite a challenge, most of the work goes into bridging that FOMO we feel regarding each other’s daily lives and experiences and the rest of the time we individually try to max out and live it to the fullest.
2026-06-14 12:49:57
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k3tam1n_bl00d
k3tam1n_bl00d :
together from 17-19 i’m glad to spend my coming twenties in freedom💞thank you for sharing
2026-06-12 20:48:59
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cool.username13
🌑 :
I feel like I experienced a lot in my life already there is definitely much more but i had a pretty exciting life,i am 20 and i love my partner and i wanna spend my whole life with him
2026-06-15 07:48:39
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aeioug1
aeioug1 :
What about women who haven’t gotten romantic attention before? I’m 21 and haven’t even dated a guy and feel like I will never find a guy that will love me.
2026-06-13 10:47:10
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sommernachtserwachen
☀️ :
Any advice on leaving a person with major abandonment issues? I feel like my boyfriend and I don’t have any future together but he has severe issues about being left
2026-06-12 13:01:14
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luca76403
luca76403 :
how should I communicate it to her?
2026-06-12 11:34:21
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millee1004
millee1004 :
can you speak more about your non-monogamous relationships?
2026-06-12 20:03:33
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maiaflry
windii :
Exactly my situation. We got together when we were 15 and 17; we both had these desires, and we tried an open relationship, but it didn’t work out. Now we’re 22 and 24, and so we broke up last March with the hope of maybe getting back together someday, but well, we’ll see what the future holds
2026-06-14 21:33:32
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lavie.logan
Lavie :
Why did me and partner just break up after 8 years (19-26)
2026-06-14 19:06:06
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greta.s_pulla
Greta :
broke up with my ex at 25 for this reason, but THEN while fucking around I found another boyfriend 😭😂 fortunately I had almost a year of being single
2026-06-14 10:02:30
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