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The PROfessor :

I disagree. A successful long-term relationship involves influencing your partner. this means you must be open to being influenced by one another for the better. A relationship where neither partner influences each other is a stagnant relationship.

Marvin Tai :

I disagree someone that truly loves you will be able to help change you for the better

The Wisdom Seeker :

I disagree. A real friend or partner that loves you will challenge you to grow and become a better version of yourself. Accepting people as they are if they’re acting out or doing hurtful things and just accepting it for who they are is not love. It’s spiritual bypassing. True love requires accountability, not passivity.

tches070 :

I respectfully disagree. If someone loves you, they will change you. They will bring out in you what you didn't have the courage to reveal yourself. They will applaud you in public and correct you sternly in private. They won't tell you what you want to hear, but what you need to hear to become the best version of yourself.

Jan_Furt_mu_stal :

Just empty sentences.

Precious forum🇱🇷🇱🇷🇬🇧🇬🇧 :

No sir I want my man to change me for the best

margod_0001 :

They don’t need to change, they need to grow. There is a BIG difference!

Evan C⭐️ :

sooo many people talking about that vera hart archetype quiz its crazy, lol. Tried it myself and the results are quite promising.

𝓙.𝓛 💕 :

What if they showed you a different side in the beginning that made you fall for them and when you committed to the relationship, the effort stopped 💔 I miss the part he showed me in the beginning 😔

Masechaba :

True 🤞

Abel_Ethio :

True partner or friend do try to change you if you are wrong.

. :

The right people won’t ask you to change. They’ll appreciate the real you. ☺️

yisy_tog :

Yesss !!! U can get better in some areas of your life!!! But you have to be you 💕🦋

Ellen Jordan :

This, is most relatable 👏👏😁😁

IAM❤️BLESSED :

I was told I’m too friendly 😏

Inka Malinka :

That’s true

Elite Creed Capital :

Trying to force someone to fit your blueprint isn’t love. It is control, and it breeds pure bitterness. If you truly care about someone, you value their raw authenticity and back their personal growth, not your version of it. Stop trying to edit their soul; either accept them exactly as they are right now, or have the maturity to let them go so they can find someone who will.

tigi :

wrong definition

Mòlì :

The myth "if you love someone accept them as they are" becomes dangerous and can be used to justify negligence. If you acept someone who offers a superficial relationship you accept your own unhappiness.

mahoocas :

Laura aka low low :

OneOfAKindLetty :

Exactly!! 💯

ligaeia💌🌸 :

Individuality matters. But getting that growth and be better is always crucial.

texasangel1935 :

Exactly

sarahdoughty15 :

So right 😊