Grow with Kaela
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Mitchleo💯 :
Yep - he’s the victim in his mind.
2026-07-19 00:15:11
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Steve Cole Life Coach :
To say you never get what you want from each other... A bit of a generalisation. They can and do. First hand, as a DA myself and in my experience as a therapist. Otherwise excellent video. Well explained. Let's maybe allow for a bit of movement rather than saying never?
2026-08-12 09:49:57
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Leelee :
Yep. I always say his pain is “bigger and more important” than mine (to him)
2026-07-16 15:23:38
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Adrienne Villarreal :
So there’s no way to make it work
2026-06-20 18:55:22
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Chocoholic66 :
Yes, his need, his pain, his challenges, his agenda, his life, his experience, his knowledge ALWAYS took a higher position. So sad, as beneath that, the inner person was decent. He wanted to be decent but self obsession ruined that.
2026-08-08 10:38:52
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Toilet.Paper.Guy :
I disagree. My wife doesn't worry about how she is at fault at all.
2026-06-13 15:09:01
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Karenscourt :
This makes way too much sense.
2026-06-14 00:37:45
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Bridget :
Thew have been so helpful thank you
2026-08-10 03:23:11
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Sarah De Los Santos :
My husband never talks about it so o can only guess, but I do think he feels badly. It’s what has kept me around this long. But feeling badly about it hasn’t really changed anything.
2026-08-05 22:03:25
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CalChef :
I’m a healing da who f’ed up all my relationships but learning secure attachment skills. There’s hope, people.
2026-06-30 22:24:29
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_TheKingofSlapout_ :
I’m pretty sure I’m the DA…..😞
2026-08-06 09:54:21
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MarieR :
Can you do a video on DAs with narcissistic traits
2026-08-08 20:31:01
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Mr_MJD :
So true, speaking from experience. It takes time but we can learn and grow to help ourselves away from this attachment pattern.
2026-06-12 13:38:00
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💗YV :
My DA ex broke up with me the day we were supposed to move in together.
2026-08-02 13:02:55
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🇨🇦 Simon Gen X Virgo/Dragon :
yeah that makes sense 🤔
2026-07-06 01:29:28
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andyznuff :
Debra B.
2026-06-14 17:35:03
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krista.is.trying :
Sad
2026-08-02 02:06:40
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SnazzY :
I just went through this with the DA... I didnt understand it at first. but a year later I do. I just feels like a waste of time. I know longer entertain that relationship and am learning.
2026-06-27 08:26:28
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Ali HIZIR :
THEY ARE SO EVIL 🔥🔥🔥
2026-07-14 09:39:49
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Patrick :
Not sure how? after 24 years she asked for divorce, been separated 5 months and she’s been in a new relationship for 4
2026-06-12 19:01:28
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Jofish :
Yeah you got us pegged for sure.
2026-07-22 01:05:16
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HMA :
I often wonder how he is feeling sitting in his home literally surrounded by items I purchased or crafted specifically for him based on things he loved.
2026-07-26 22:32:30
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Evergrowing Bastion :
I mean this in such a respectful and eye-opening way….biiiiiiiiiitch! I feel so seen as the partner of a DA. Thank you for seeing me
2026-07-23 13:49:00
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Live in the Moment ❌🧶 :
So what you’re saying is this is the most messed up cycle that never ends on the planet
2026-07-28 21:00:14
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Steven :
Very well explained, thank you💙👍
2026-06-26 12:40:38
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