I really do need to stop over explaining myself I’m such a yapper 😅😅😅
2026-06-13 04:32:03
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Reagan🩷 :
I think you should start a podcast. I’d be listening every morning.
2026-06-12 21:45:50
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𝓓 :
“seek to understand before you seek to be understood”
2026-06-13 19:48:42
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patricia180green :
Observe not absorb
2026-06-12 17:57:12
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gabi/ internacional girl 🩷 :
learning more and more to be present!!!
2026-07-09 22:26:22
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chaoticallyperlfect💜 :
as a certified yapper with adhd, this is my biggest struggle. I just get so excited to talk about literally everything all at once
2026-06-13 13:06:36
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Alex p :
I don’t know how to stop overthinking. My mind lovesss to wonder
2026-06-13 14:15:33
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Jill :
Such a great message, full of truth!
2026-06-12 17:55:22
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Vision Vault :
I’m NEVER in the moment and it does make me unhappy! The thing is I don’t know how to be fully present, do you have any tips?
2026-06-15 12:11:01
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Mariam <3 :
I love ur content, do you have any other creators with similar style, I want my page to be filmed with this type of knowledge
2026-06-13 19:43:38
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Leah 🐈 :
This…may change my life
2026-06-12 20:34:20
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Olympia :
“Learning to observe and not absorb” - I’m an empath too and I’ve been working on not taking on other people’s energy. Definitely doing better recently.
2026-06-14 09:10:07
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Mel Gibson :
I heard a quote yesterday, “love what you have before life teaches you to love what you’ve lost.”
2026-06-15 13:30:05
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Megan Powell🫶🏼 :
This is so true because whenever I go to the mall to buy perfume or clothes I always need my friends opinions where I should just have my own opinion and just buy whatever I feel like I wanna buy instead of having my friends’s opinions
2026-06-25 00:48:57
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rayvlew0305 :
i heard “worrying is just suffering in advance” and i was genuinely was left stunned
2026-06-16 02:11:10
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Ashlyn Laney :
Observe not absorb 🔥
2026-06-14 20:12:02
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Anneliese :) :
“the observe not absorb” oh boy did I hear that 👏
2026-06-17 17:43:08
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maud :
i struggle with being seen interested or asking questions about a topic cause i don't wanna seem weird, like the other day a guy told that he is the owner of a bussines i go to, and i have so many questions but instead i just said thats SO cool, and leave it there cause i didnt know if he wanna talk to me, or just told that to like Say that, cause he was hearing a conversation i was having with someone else, but in general that happens to me, where i don't know how to seem interested withouth feeling weird
2026-06-12 18:55:26
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thegofflife :
My issue is tho I try to understand others but then get sad when all they want to talk about is themselves so then I just start out by talking about myself bc if I don’t I won’t get the chance to anyway.. should I just not care and accept my life isn’t interesting to them ? lol
2026-07-06 17:51:50
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kedtheetrainer :
Straight gems!
2026-06-29 01:12:55
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MaAnguiano33 :
Observe don’t absorb yesss this was a phrase I learned a long time ago. It has helped me SO MUCH. Empathy is hard to deal with
2026-07-02 20:34:17
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t a h z :
"listen to understand not to respond"
2026-06-28 09:26:34
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Hope :
I do be over sharing a bit more than I should. Knowing it’s okay to dial back is comforting!
2026-07-04 01:00:14
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Eve is that you? :
Please bring me back here, this is GOLD😩
2026-06-28 20:03:24
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