Rachel | Relationship Coach ✨
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passiflora484 :
As the video says nothing: I’m an FA and I hate being blocked, unfollowed etc. it hurts more than ghosting, yes I’ll still think about the person , but the act of blocking / unfollowing will remain in my brain as a huge red flag. Not sure why would someone block an FA- we don’t chase…
2026-06-13 00:29:17
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ynot9 :
so they treat you like sh* because they don't believe they deserve to be loved even though you love them. then you are fed up with all the mistreating and they have an abandonment wound? 😭😭😭 please
2026-06-13 20:58:38
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Laura :
He discarded me 3 1/2 months ago and has since blocked and unblocked me like 7 or 8 times. I've not blocked him once lol
2026-06-12 19:02:32
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Send Love From Paris :
Blocking? the most toxic behavior ever
2026-07-26 23:16:10
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niki :
Is it also a sign if they keep changing their profile picture when you cut them off?
2026-07-29 07:51:20
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Anami62 :
why do people invest so much energy into this stupid behaviour? I deactivated, I blocked all for my own well being. why would I try to figure out what he is or isn't doing with his social media. its done the minute they choose to leave, no take backs.
2026-06-19 02:39:40
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Bosta :
Does the same reasoning work for unfollowing? We did not block each other but at some point i unfollowed and removed her.
2026-06-12 20:46:12
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carrrrlz :
to be honest (i know this is messed up and backwards) it gives me a slight sense of satisfaction and relief because i suddenly get validation that they did actually care about me deeply. i also don’t feel like it’s final because i’ve never been blocked forever - they always seem to do it as an emotional reaction because they’re angry or pushing me away, but eventually they always come back around. blocking shows they’re still emotionally attached, being ghosted however makes me feel totally out of control and spiral.
2026-07-27 23:33:14
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Chloe Beth :
Months after the breakup, my FA ex and I were talking again and she asked me on a date so I was expecting to see her again. In an unrelated conversation between me and my ex’s bff, I found out she had a rebound relationship in between the last time we spoke and then. In the following days, my ex ghosted me again. Do you think she ghosted because she was scared I would be mad at her? It’s been months now and I’m not so emotional about it but I do think about it and wonder why she left again after we were in a good friendly flirty place. I don’t think this is me grasping at straws, I’m just so intrigued.
2026-06-12 19:53:17
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
When I was fortunate enough to go through the experience of being discarded six years ago not long after I had no choice but to block her, and to delete every single thing off of my phone that had anything to do with her and to get rid of anything in my apartment that reminded me of her, it wasn’t something I couldn’t not do because of the pain that I was in, my nervous system like needed me to, there’s something about it that allowed me to feel a little bit safer. That whole experience turned me into a fearful avoidant. I’ve been terrified of her emotionally all this time, which is why I was surprised I was able to reconnect with her last August, and that went amazing at first and then it didn’t take long before I was living in a limbo that’s lasted until now. I’m more afraid of her now than I have ever been, emotionally speaking. It’s a crazy experience and very painful because I know that this is not because of a lack of love at all in fact it’s the opposite, and that’s why so much fear comes up for both of us because it wrecked us both when she left and she does not trust herself to not do it again and doesn’t trust herself to be responsible for how she treats another person within a relationship. Her triggers are extremely severe, like her being in the fetal position severe. I wish she could meet someone like you, because she’s never met another human being that understands her and knows what it’s like, and she’s done lots of therapy. I had to just pull my energy back, I had no choice, I can’t keep standing in the doorway, or holding the bridge up alone
2026-06-12 20:53:33
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xlimpinx :
Or we are tired of the “avoidant” BS and blocking an unhealthy relationship is the best option for ourselves.
2026-07-12 14:13:06
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Angela Amorocho :
2 years blocked and the FA a random day says “hi, how are you” I respond politely but do not engage, gave them 1 month to explain why they were coming back, free that I asked if they had something meaningful to say… silence for 2 days so I blocked them. I is being a month since then and I am not blocked back this time. Any ideas as to why?
2026-06-14 14:53:37
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Shop Lauren Loxley :
Yes they will to cope with grief and discomfort, but also for quick validation!
2026-06-12 23:26:46
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Sim 🇨🇦🇮🇹 :
I blocked my avoidant. He’s crashing out. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-07-27 21:38:16
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Viennstok :
But I did the blocking not him.. I didn't wish to and it took immense bravery but I had to or I'd be in limbo forever whilst he push pulled and went into that Bermuda triangle head space they all vanish too at random will.
2026-08-07 17:26:50
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_se7en_077 :
So then what do you do with this like r they just incurable if you stay silent they like that if u text them they don’t it’s fkn stupid
2026-07-22 23:50:14
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Krysia :
I block and unblock just to give them a taste of their own medicine
2026-06-15 12:11:21
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jiminicricket :
I find that leaving him unblocked helps me detach for some reason. Hes not gonna contact me and vice versa and I dont care for social media knowing its all a facade for him 🤷♀️
2026-06-13 03:04:00
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🌸🌺@blonde🌸🌺♍ :
He blocked me
2026-07-09 21:32:32
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morocla :
You didn’t even answer your own question. All you talked about is if they blocked you back. What about if you block them only? Can you at least cover that?
2026-06-12 22:55:31
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Avan :
Talk about it with the rebound
2026-06-12 18:10:40
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_se7en_077 :
Bro wtf is this shit
2026-07-22 23:42:57
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upupz :
I removed the FB relationship link, changed my status to single & removed him as a friend - immediately after receiving the horrible text. No contact, no chasing, no checking his FB, nothing. He reached out on day 23 to return my belongings.
2026-06-27 10:45:08
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