@tintdberryy: ngi nag quick grwm lang #fyp #relatable #grwm

maryliciouskisses :

lalo na as an eldest daughter. ive been there too, sinabihan ako ng lola ko na parang di ko raw nanay si mama. sabi ko, “Anak din naman ako ah. Anak niya rin naman ako, bakit parang di niya ako anak kung magsalita siya?” ayon, walang nasabi pabalik. Pero still hurts, need ko rin ng magulang pero nagpapakamagulang ako sa sarili kong magulang.

Jiji ⁸¹ :

we were born without permission

K :

DIBA?? BAKIT KAILANGAN LAGING ANAK ANG MAGPATAWAD O MAGPAKUMBABA KAHIT ALL YOUR LIFE E MAGULANG NAMAN ANG NANANANAKIT SAYO EMOTIONALLY. I AM JUST SO TIRED NA DIN NA AKO NALANG LAGI UMIINTINDI PORKET MAGULANG PARIN DAW YAN. NO TAMA NA. KUNG PANO NIYA AKO ITRATO GANUN NARIN AKO. PAGOD NA PAGOD NA AKO.

watermehlen :

its always “anak ka lang naman” or worse “sino ka ba sa akala mo?”

xiapark_17 :

nirealtalk ko si mama ayun lagi nya sinasabi sakin malala pa ako sa demonyo. ayaw nya nasasabihan ng totoo

cessy :

DIBA? like did we have the choice to choose a parents ba for us to experience this fckng thing? OO mama mo pa rin’yan pero when life get hard and toxic the cycle is over and over again ta ma tatangap mo panunumbat kasi sila dw mo buhay sayo nag provide like in the first place that’s their job to provide…. REMEMBER WE DON’T HAVE A CHOICE TO CHOOSE A PARENTS

Angelyka S. | Faith & Purpose :

kaya di ako agree na we should understand them because it's their first time living too dahil tayo, we won't even be dealing with this trauma in the first place if they didnt have us. 💀

kae LST ⋆. 𐙚 :

as u grow older, u’ll realize why people say it. i don’t think it’s really for our parents, i think it’s for us. so that one day, when they’re gone, we won’t be left with regrets because of the resentment we carried toward them. rn, i understand them better. some of our parents had no idea what a healthy parent-child relationship looked like or if one even existed. when u grow up without seeing or experiencing it urself, it’s not something u can simply learn overnight. let’s do better moving forward & make sure not to pass the trauma. hopefully we can be parents that we always want.

babs :

di uubra yan sa kanila yang "anak nya rin naman ako" pag sinabi mo yan sasagutin ka nyan ng "anak lang kita". fav line ng mama ko

Brzyyyy :

idk why they never thought of it a dif way and honestly it slowly teaches you to be in a one-sided relationship

🗣🗣 :

as someone na hindi nakarinig ng congrats every nakaka with honors tas nasabihan pa ng sayang pala, masakit. kasi mama ko yun eh, mama ko pa rin yun kahit anong gawin ko.

lmao :

i feel so seen

ri . ah :

kahit man daw bali baliktarin ang mundo parents parin daw. di na mababago un. pero kahit bali baliktarin rin ang mundo anak rin naman tayo. parang ang turing eh di na anak . puro sumbat nalang. di na natapos. 🥺😭

empty_daylight :

tapos sasabahin "wala ka dito kung wala sya"; BAKIT NAG MAKA-AWA BA AKO NA GAWIN NYU?

teyuh :

me: nung sinabi ko ean sa tita ko tas sabi "mama mo pa rin eon" over my dignidad hahaha

Keema <3 :

why always "Nanay mo parin yun" but never "Anak mo parin yun"

Leap :

kasi sila raw po nag papakain sa atin, nag bibigay ng mga basic needs natin excluding our emotinal and mentally safety. plus they will also say na they were the one who gave life to us.

ensaymadacreamcheese :

A :

sol :

fran :

sending hugs!!

kayiiyiii :

super relate dito HAHAHA palagi nila sinasabi na Nanay mo pa rin yon kahit iniwan ka nya lol HAHAHA

Malskie 29 :

ang ayoko pa dyan pinipilit nya yung gusto nya. ANO BA GUSTO MO MAG TINDA AKO HABANG BUHAY? MAY PANGARAP DIN AKO! TAO DIN AKO SANA ALAM MO YON MA.